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How would you feel about it?
My ex-girlfriend and I go to different colleges and were long distance for awhile because of it. We're no longer together but are on good terms and are pretty good friends, and she just revealed to me that sometimes (even while we were together), when she would sit down for class she would knowingly let her thongs ride up for random guys.
I'm not asking how I should feel about that (I don't really care), but I was just curious what you guys would think of it.
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I'd think (no offense) She's sleazy or she just wants attention..
or she's just trying to make you jealous or something.
Haha.
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Ummm... I would say... Truthfully she either didn't want to be in a relationship or she wasn't hat into you. But there are tons at girls out there so don't give up!:)
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I don't know her so I can't make assumptions to her personality, but since you don't really care about this and you're still friends with her, my guess is that she's not an all out attention-whore or psychotic in any way. My thoughts are that she did/does this because she likes to feel sexy. Who doesn't? It's human nature for people to be unsure of their looks and wonder if other people think they're good-looking. It feels really good to know that others find you attractive and showing a little thong is a healthy way to discover that. Unlike psychotic sluts, she doesn't need to sleep around to feel this satisfaction. There's nothing wrong with being sexy in college and she's going about it in a very responsible, mature way. She'll probably grow out of it when she starts to feel more confident in herself, but for now, it's not really a big deal. If she's still doing this when she's 40, then there's a problem :)
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Shes most likely an attention seeker or just lying to try to make you jealous.
I wouldn't talk to her either way though.
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Hmmm....
Just another female seeking male attention. Same crap, different day. Each to his/her own.
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I believe your ex sees this as a turn-on. When you were together she probably did this to make other guys jealous and now that you aren't together, tried to make you jealous or told you just to gauge how you would react to a personal story. I would think she also (in a strange way) is hinting she still likes you by saying she can gain the attraction of other guys; not really a redeeming quality. She must crave the attention and showing thong has been working for her (good or bad). I think this is sluttish. Trust me, doing so will only take her so far...
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Well, that's not something I'd ever do (who wants random creepy guys looking at your thong? really?), but I do understand it- most girls go through a sort of "attention whore" phase. Not a good thing while in a relationship, but I'm sure you know that.
- 20/f
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