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E-mail: Rebekahsherwood@ymail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Atlanta
Age: 16
Member Since: May 26, 2011
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Hello I am a 16 year old male and I recently applied to a McDonalds near where I live. The application made me really sad at the sort of questions they asked and I just feel like there is a much better way I could be spending my time that mindlessly working at McDonalds. My parents want me to get a summer job but I do not really want to work here. Am I being too picky or snobbish. I get straight As and I don't know it just seems like a waste of my time. Writing this now it seems elitist but it is how I feel. Any advice on this matter would help. Be critical of me too it will only help me. (link)
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If you don't want to work there,Quit,Then go find yourself another job.
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When boys look at your lips when you talk does thar mean he wants to kiss you
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It depends,If he looks at them everytime you speak,then yes.
If he looks at them a couple times,then you probably aren't speaking clearly.
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Hi.... My crush for a few months now just graduated from my middle school, and I don't know what to do...... He's going to ninth grade now... while I'm going to seventh.... My best friend's brother is best friends with him, but she won't invite me when he is over.... What do I do? I really like him! (link)
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Flirt. Smile a lot. Touch him as much as possible. Be nice. Hug him. Lol:)
Make him your summer love!:)
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My cousin is 25 years old and he's really emotional and he cries alot for no reason. He just started crying his eyes out and he said he can't stop. What can I do to comfort him ? Should I hold him talk to him or what ? What can I say to him ? (link)
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First of all,He needs to go to either a therapist or a doctor to get what kind of depression he has. Its depression for sure. Then they need to figure out what caused it. Then they can talk to him and give him medication.
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My freshmen year of high school just ended and its my first day of summer vacation and I'm already sad..I dont want it to be summer in fact I hate summer all I wanna do is cry. I don't know how to make this summer go by fast I even hate my job but my parents are making me work! Any suggestions of things I can do so I can be happier? (link)
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Hang out with friends,Go on vacation,Go to the movies,Get a boyfriend,Go on a date,Go to concerts,Eat icecream,Go bowling,Go skating,Go swimming,Eat,Sleep,Act like a little kid again,Make youtube videos,Go spend the night at other friends or family houses,Go to social events and meet new friends,Go to the beach,Collect seashells,Smile,Laugh,Do chairity events,Help at a local hospital,Go to a local hospital and hang out with the children that don't get to hang out with friends and stuff,Go on a long roadtrip with your family or friends,Ask your parents if you can have a party,Play on the computer,Make youtube videos,Make a website,Create a blog,Make a twitter,Tweet,Facebook,and Myspace celeberties.,Get a summer job,Play truth or dare,watch a webshow,create your own summer blog,create a summer webshow,create a summer vlog and ask people for ideas of things to do on there,Go fishing,Play volleyball,Play softball,Get into some amazing summer sports that you can also meet new friends through.
Just do the things you love and are passionate about. Even if its picking flowers or photography. Make this summer one you will never forget. Go camping,Help at a little kids summer camp. There's so many things you can do!
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Every year my junior high has a Last Dance, which is kinda like a mini prom. Last year, all of my friends got ready with their other friends that I barely knew. I had to get ready alone with my mom.
This year, I'm scared the same thing will happen. They're all getting ready with one of the popular girls that I don't really know. My other friends aren't going at all. And my mom is going away this year (not that I want to get ready with her again, anyway). What should I do? Please respond quickly, the dance is this weekend!! (link)
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Pick your bestest friend that isn't going and invite her to go with you. You guys could get hair and make-up appointments.
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My friend said he wanted to go out with me but it would be to weird to date each other. We want to date but it's too akward.What should we do? (link)
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You can date and be friends. There are some boyfriends/girlfriends who date like bestfriends. They dont kiss alot or anything,their just there for each other. Just date like friends if you want,Or stay bestfriends and wait and see where you go in your relationship.
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Ok people... im Female, 13 and im telling you all now that im not crazy... Could i Be a vampire?? I like the taste of blood, have a dark ring around my iris, can see in the dark well, extremely good sense of hearing, can feel peoples energey (can tell if someone is near even when i cant see and can pick up on their emotions or how they're feeling... Its like hummidity sometimes too), Love the dark, have animal like insticts especialy when i go into fight or flight mode, and have fangs..... What do you guys think????? (no im not a cannibal) (link)
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Do you have parents that are humans? If so no,you are a human. And,Its not fangs,I have friends with teeth like that. You can get braces or surgery to push them into place with the rest of your teeth if you want.
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17/f 21/m
I dated this guy when I was 15 and got pregnant. I broke up with him when I was 4 months pregnant because he was very controlling, manipulative, emotionally abusive, intimidating...etc. He never hit me but he has left bruises on me because he grabbed my arms too hard. He got married, and I knew his wife before they started dating. He came to see the baby for 3 months, dipped for 8 months, came back, and now he hasnt seen her in a month or 2 'because of work'. He doesnt pay child support but I dont want to pursue it because I dont want him to get any kjnd of custody.
This week, he was arrested and I found out that he has been physically violent towards his wife the whole time. She sent me a picture of her black eye. She got a restraining order on him and she suggested I do the same. Now im terrified of him because he has anger towards me and I now know what hes capable of. I have a few questions:
-i really dont want him apart of my or my childs life because hes unstable and dangerous. Hes not on the birth certificate either. Is it wrong for me to cut off all contact from him and not let him see the baby?
-hes from peru and was not a citizen, but his wife is. Did that automatically make him a citizen? Or did he still have to apply? Because she wants to try to get him deported. (he already has a pretty large record)
Any other advice is welcome, thank you !
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1-It is not wrong that you dont want him seeing your baby. At least you could maybe have a chance of getting away from him,if he tried to hurt the baby it couldnt get away and it could possibly die quicker if he hit it hard enough.
2-No,He is not a citizen just because his wife was. But I do not know if she can get him deported,She can try though!
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What does it mean when a guy doesn't call you after you give him your number? (link)
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It usually takes 3 to 5 days for them to call so that they dont seem desperate. If they dont call,Forget it...Youll be ok.. this stuff happens all the time.
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Ok well there is the guy that is in 8th grade that i really like (im also in 8th grade) and during one of our classes someone shouted out to the class hey so and so should go out and I said no no no no even though i like him and a few seconds later he was like never no no no no no and then someone was like wats wrong with so and so and the other so and so said nothing and im kinda worried that so and so might not like me Everyone says that we should go out. Wer have b een friends since 5th grade and we have good laughs and he is funny and everyone says common how obious is it that they haver feelings for eachother, but i just ignore everything but i have feelings for this person but idk ih the other so and so has feelings for me and i just need help because im clueless. I go to Saint vincent depaul skool hope u can help:) (link)
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Look for body language,If His toes are pointed at you,He smiles at you alot,He touches you as much as possible,things like that...Then he probably likes you. There's no way to determine that he actually likes you though.
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My ex-girlfriend and I go to different colleges and were long distance for awhile because of it. We're no longer together but are on good terms and are pretty good friends, and she just revealed to me that sometimes (even while we were together), when she would sit down for class she would knowingly let her thongs ride up for random guys.
I'm not asking how I should feel about that (I don't really care), but I was just curious what you guys would think of it. (link)
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Shes most likely an attention seeker or just lying to try to make you jealous.
I wouldn't talk to her either way though.
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I think I'm really ugly...What can I do to become pretty? I think I have a big nose and I don't like the way I look at all..What should I do? (link)
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Well,You can use make-up...But beauty is about who you are,what makes you,you,and how you are unique from different people. So,You should probably just embrace your flaws ,because they make you who you are.
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So I love to sing but I'm not very good at it at all. I was just wondering if u can train your voice even if your the worst singer in the world? Any suggestions ? (link)
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Take singing lessons. They have them pretty cheap at local colleges and stuff. Just google "Cheap vocal lesson in (wherever you are from)" Some people do them on skype for free,I only know of skatergirls8494 that give them on skype which is a webcamming site. They do them for free and they are very good at them actually. You have to do the exercises for your voice that they give you though s its ready and prepared for the songs they choose for you. You can do private classes with those girls which is just you and them,Or you could do group classes which is them and like 30 other people all at once. They also do internet training for acting too. So,They add everybody and train and do lessons if anyone is interested in either acting or singing. I actually take their lessons in the group one,Its really fun...Most of the people cant sing but are training their voices. They also do little online concerts where they pick some of the best and most improved people out of each area in their classes(They have like 50 or over classes each day) and she invites friends and family to hear the improvement in her online classes. Its really fun and she spends alot of time working with people:) They also have them where you can do it face-to-face private or group in real life to,But the internet one is just fun. I actually met my boyfriend through her internet lessons.
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What is it that people like about a girl who has brown eyes and brown hair? This is what I have and I just think it's so boring and blah. I'm trying to find the good in it. (link)
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The good in it? You're probably beautiful. Alot of guys most likely love you. Most models have brown eyes and hair. Brown eyes are supposenly the most unique and sparkly.
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Hi!! well my friend is fourteen years old, and still has not got her period. Is there anything she could be doing to prevent it? (link)
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Girls get their period between 8-16 sometimes even 18.
You cannot do something to slow it down or speed it up. It comes as your body chages,She is perfectly fine and healthy.
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me and my girlfriend after a year and a half broke up. I need her back. I leave for the military in august and want to make the best of a relationship with her. I truly love this woman. pleease help. We still talk, and she knows how I feel, but what can I do to make feel what she used to feel for me. (link)
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You can't make her love you.
Just tell her how you feel,then give her some time to think about things...
You guys just broke up and your leaving soon...I mean I guess you could try purposing so that she can move to one of those station places so she can see you while your gone. Lol
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I earned about 320 dollars from coaching a little league sports team during their whole season. I'm 18 and currently unemployed. I applied for another job but haven't gotten a response back. I don't really know what to do with my money. I can either blow it all and buy clothes (I REALLY need to update my wardrobe.. i haven't gotten a new outfit for probably a year and half. I just really need some new clothes haha I'm sick of wearing the same stuff) Or I can put it in my savings, earn more money, and then spend all of that later in the summer (considering i only have 2 weeks left of school).
so should I spend it now? or save it and wait until I have more money to buy clothes?
Also- if you say I should spend it now- do you recommend any places or ideas on how I can get a bunch of clothes for a cheap price? I was thinking Platos Closet since there are name brand clothes (so they are still cute) but cheaper. I don't really care if they are already worn. I just really need some new clothes haha. Thank you so much! (link)
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You just said you are getting a job. You aren't sure if you are getting it yet. SAVE THE MONEY. If you blow all your money,How will you buy stuff like food, pay bills,and important things that you can't live without. You CAN live with the clothes you have. If you had no clothes,this would be a different story.
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everyday i go to school and put on a fake smile, act like everything is alright but the truth is im depressed my parents always yell at me and each other, say anything to bring me down, i have no1 i trust, im stressed out, i cant sleep, some people at school calls me names i usually dont care but when now every little thing adds up, i hate my step family, i feel out casted, alone,im tired all the time, everyday people try 2 bring me down and now its working. i tryd talking 2 my friends about this but they dont wanna hear it cause there all dealing with half of the problems i am. what do i do 2 feel like myself again? (link)
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Go find anybody,It can be a therapist,or simply somebody off the internet,Just anybody...And be their friend and they will be yours.
I'm guessing you suffer from depression? That causes mixed emotions,get some adult you trust to take you to the doctor for medicine,Or you could always go see a therapist or most schools even have therapists that you can talk to about problems for free.
If you tell your parents and they continue acting like this,tell someone or contact police or something cause they sound abusive.
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What songs are good for singing at talent shows
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Assuming the time of year,Im guessing school is almost over. So why not do Whenever you remember by Carrie Underwood?
Alot of people have said they sang this song for 8th grade graduations and stuff. It has alot to do with reaching your dreams and keeping your head high with the help of friends. Its a great song choice for things like this!
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