Ok well there is the guy that is in 8th grade that i really like (im also in 8th grade) and during one of our classes someone shouted out to the class hey so and so should go out and I said no no no no even though i like him and a few seconds later he was like never no no no no no and then someone was like wats wrong with so and so and the other so and so said nothing and im kinda worried that so and so might not like me Everyone says that we should go out. Wer have b een friends since 5th grade and we have good laughs and he is funny and everyone says common how obious is it that they haver feelings for eachother, but i just ignore everything but i have feelings for this person but idk ih the other so and so has feelings for me and i just need help because im clueless. I go to Saint vincent depaul skool hope u can help:)
VoiceofReason answered Tuesday May 24 2011, 9:04 am: First, you shouldn't be telling strangers where you live or where you go to school.
Anyway, people were just using your obvious affection for the guy to get a rise out of the two of you. It was just a good natured prank. I've had it pulled on me and so have zillions of other people.
Look, if you have an opportunity to be with someone you think would be good for you then you need to close the deal as soon as you can. Talk to him privately and tell him how you feel. This is a good object lesson for a girl because then they will understand better the position of guys, who are usually left with the job of doing the asking out. If he rebuffs you then you will understand how guys feel when they get the stop sign from a girl. So in a weird way being a little aggressive here is a total win-win even if you come up empty. Therefore, go for it! [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
Katelizabeth28 answered Saturday May 21 2011, 4:48 am: Wow, I remember those days. I am now 28 years old and I am a attractive, independent, loving mother, but I think I can help you. Honestly, you are going through adolescents right now, the both of you are. And whether or not you want to believe me, when you become 20, you will look back at this and laugh, and think, "Wow those were the easy days." When someone shouted that out loud and you automatically said, no, no, no, he is going to retaliate with the same. He doesn't want to be embarresed, just as you don't want to either. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He probably does, he just didn't want to get embarresed. So what I would do, if I were you, is maybe hint around to his friends that you do like him, and see what happens. Hope I have helped! BTW, if you think I am some crazy ugly woman, you can see for yourself that I am not on FB under Katie Elizabeth Miller, in Mt. Vernon, IN. [ Katelizabeth28's advice column | Ask Katelizabeth28 A Question ]
atowner answered Friday May 20 2011, 8:31 pm: okk... so just cause he said no dosnt mean he dosnt have feelings for you. he was probably in a lot of pressure at that time like you were. so try to get him in private and say that you just want to get it straight and just ask him right there. trust me it'll work and everything wont be all about secrets. you wont regret it i promise you. [ atowner's advice column | Ask atowner A Question ]
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