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soo umm my boyfriend is kinda acting a little weird lately.
He's just been like really quiet. Normally we laugh a lot and joke around and kiss and have a great time. But lately, especially in school, he is so quiet and looks super tired. I've tried talking to him about it but he always says "i'm tired". I'm not saying I don't believe him.. I mean he literally looks like he will fall asleep in the middle of the hallway. But he's been like this for about 2 weeks now. How can he possibly be so extremely tired that long? His sleeping patterns are also very weird.. He will come home from school, take a nap, then do homework until 2am and then go to bed and get about 5 hours of sleep. Then on the weekends he sleeps for like 12 hours or even 13! Even then, if we hang out on weekends, he still claims he's tired.
I guess he could be tired because of the lack of sleep, but I dont know. It just sounds weird to me. I get about 7 hours of sleep per day and yeah i'm tired most of the day but i'm still happy and chipper around him.
Oh and also there was something weird that happened today. It was just after lunch and I was standing with him by his next class waiting for the teacher and he looked over my shoulder and said "Hey Lucy!" (Lucy is his friend and he told me that he jokes around with her a lot and makes fun of her) I normally don't have a problem with it.. Until today.. After he said "hey lucy" i kept standing with him and talked to him. then his teacher came and I kissed him goodbye and left for my class. He looked like he was about to walk into the classroom but when I looked over my shoulder as i was walking down the hall and saw him with a big smile and he was standing right next to lucy talking to her.
now i know it doesn't seem like a big deal to you, but it was just weird to me because i thought he was going into his classroom but it seemed like he was faking it and waited until I left, in order to talk to lucy. Am I crazy? or do you think something is going on with him?
Oh and I don't think he's completely weird. Like he will still talk to me and kiss me the same way. After school we still hang out the same and joke around the same. But it just seems like he doesn't have much energy. I dont know what to do! I've tried talking to him about it but he just says he's tired. What do i do? (link)
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HMMM, in this case, he may have a slight crush on Lucy, but don't just rule it out to that. The tiredness thing, that's strange. Is he on drugs?? Is he getting bored with you?? How do you really know his sleeping patterns? Are you there with him every night? I doubt it. I think that he is either confused about you cause he may kind of like this Lucy chick, or he's on drugs. Or he could have something wrong with his metabolism. Has he started to gain weight, since he's gotten so tired?? I had a boyfriend in college that was 6'1 and 160 pounds, within 6 months he gained 50 pounds and constantly slept and had very dry skin. He went to the doctor, and they diagnosed him with something/cant think of the name of it, and gave him medication and he had his energy back and lost most of the weight. If I were you, I would tell him, "Ya know, there is just something really strange going on with you lately. I don't know what it is, but something doesn't feel right. Is there anything that you want to tell me? And if there is, I won't be mad or get upset with you, I am just kinda freaked out as to why you are always so tired all the time. It just doesn't make sense, and what's up with you and that Lucy chick? Do you think you may like her more than just a friend?" Just be honest, that's all you can do at this point to find an answer. I am 28 years old and female, and remember those days. They were cake compared to life now. You will look back on this and laugh, trust me!
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Me and her had sex last night and this morning she said her tummy hurts. She's been eating ok and she hasn't thrown up yet. She's 18. Could she be pregnant ? (link)
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Did you guys use any protection?? Did you ejaculate inside of her without any protection? Or did you not use any protection, but pulled out before you came. If you did, then it really depends on if she was ovulating at the time. If her stomach hurts, that doesn't mean she is pregnant. That just means, her stomach hurts. Pregnancy does not make your stomach hurt. If she is 18 and has regular periods and she was ovulating at the time, and you did come inside of her there is a really good chance of her being pregnant hince that's how woman get pregnant. I would ask her when her last period was, and wait to see if she has it the same time that she had it last month. You don't start throwing up automatically after you get pregnant, it takes a month or two. If she doesn't get her period at the time when she is supposed too, I would get a pregnancy test to find out for sure. If she doesn't have regular periods, then that is a good sign that she probably isn't pregnant, meaning her ovulation system is messed up. With all this said, get the girl on some birth control and you won't have to worry about this anymore. :) Hope this helps.
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Okayyy. so heres the thing. i know this guy likes me and he asked me out like 2X. 1st time his friends asked me for him and i paniced and said no like an idiot. cause i like him :/ than the 2nd time he asked me in person. i guess he didnt believe his friends. and right when i was about to say yes. i paniced again and said no. and walked off. now im getting really sick and tired of this!!! HELP ME!!! how do i go up to him and tell him that im actually interested. i dont want him to think im not. oh please o please HELP MEEE!!! (link)
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Easy....Just walk up to him, calm and collective looking like you are a rockstart and the only girl in the room, and you know that you are an amazing girl, and say, "Hey, I'm really sorry that I told you no when you asked me out the (other day/last week;whenever it was), I just had so much going on that day. I just wanted to tell you... That if you ever asked me out again.... I would definitly say yes, (with a big sexy smile on your face). It's just been crazy lately." And wait for his reaction...Which should be good, but maybe a little confusing on his end, because you did tell him no twice, but now that you have just presented him with this, it looks as though you have a TON of courage and are not afraid of anything. And to a guy, that is very attractive.
I gaurenTEE you he will ask you out. Trust me on this. Just when you start to get nervous, think of it as acting... Just think of what you are about to say, so you say it just as cool and as collective as you want it to come out, then after that, start walking toward him with your head held high. I hope this helps! I'm positive it will. I am a 28 year old female, and think about those good ol' high school/jr. high days, and man, were they easy compared to life now. You will look back at this, and think the same thing!
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So theres this senior in my school named tanner. Known him like 5 years but only started talking to him this school year because hes in one of my classes. Well weve been through some stuff this year. He has a girlfriend of 2 years. But me and him have had this chemistry from day one. So we talked and flirted for a while nothing technically crossing his "cheating" line that ive set for us. I wont do that to his girlfriend. No kissing or even holding hands. Well anyway my bestfriends knew everything we talked about and eventually decided to screw me and tel his girlfriend everything. It got into this huge mess so we decided that we just wanted to be friends. So we were for a little while but mainly we just didnt talk to each other because its impposible for us to not flirt with each other. He got injured recently and wasnt in school for two months he just got back this monday. Take into consideration that we didnt talk at all during that time. Well the monday we talked alot in class & he called me after school and asked me if i wanted to play basketball with him and a few friends. I told him no because i dont know his friends but then he was like pleaseee i havent seen you in a really long time and i really want you to come. So i went. Well most the time his friends were off by thmselve leaving me and him together. There was lots of contact we were touching each other alot more then nessaccary for basketball and we were joking around alot. I had tons of fun and im sure he did too. After i left he texted me and said you looked so sexy just to let you know. Then he asked me to hang out again thee next day. So sat waiting for him to show up for an hour and a half in the mean time he drove his truck by me 3 times. Well i went home and later that night he texted me and said way to show up . According to him he was on the opposite side of the building i was on the whole time. Then he said something about just me and him going and i said i didnt care if his friends were there that they were funny and i didnt think it would be as much fun with just us two. I meant to say it like i didnt think hed have as much fun with just me but it came out wrong and he said ok and i said night cause i didnt realized how badly that had come out. So today in class we didnt talk at all but i feel like he was a little angry or upset he was moving alot and keep looking at me. So we were both a little agitated but tomoorow everything will go back to normal like it always does. Honestly i dont knw what to do about this whole situation because theres a part of me that wants to leave him alone because apparently he loves his girlfriend otherwise hed break up with her to be with me and then theres another part that thinks hes afraid and he wants to be sure that hes not gonna break up with her for no reason i really like him but i feel like i get my hopes up then they fall and i cant stop myself from doing it because i feel like there could be some chance for us. I would love advice on anything about this please and thank sorry its so long.
THANKS AGAIN (link)
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I have been through this same scenerio, you have to ask yourself, is he and his girlfriend having sex?? And maybe that's why he doesn't want to break up with her, because he is not sure if you would have sex with him? I only ask that because guys at this age think about sex A LOT. Or is it that he does not know that you like him like that anymore? More or less, you need to tell him that you do like him like that, unless you are too scared to tell him and afraid of getting hurt or embarresed. I, myself am 28 years old/F and remember those high school days of boy/girl drama. I look back on those days, and think, wow, I had it made. Life was sooo much easier then. He may love his girlfriend, but not be IN LOVE with her anymore, hince trying to get with you/hang out with you. I can tell you this, he doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend, and find out that you won't be with him. I would tell him that you would like to try and be in a relationship with him and explain the reasons why, like you said; the chemistry between you two, you guys make each other laugh, and you have fun together, and make it be descreet just between the two of you, so there is no drama involved in case it turns out bad, I'm hoping he doesn't have a big mouth and would tell all of his friends to the point where it would get back to his girlfriend. All you can do at this point is put yourself out there and see what happens. It may be a hard transition for him AND you, but it's definitly a way to find out where this is going to lead. And trust me, once you become 28 years old, you will look back at this and think the same thing that I am thinking. Life was soo much easier then. Hope things go well!
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Ok well there is the guy that is in 8th grade that i really like (im also in 8th grade) and during one of our classes someone shouted out to the class hey so and so should go out and I said no no no no even though i like him and a few seconds later he was like never no no no no no and then someone was like wats wrong with so and so and the other so and so said nothing and im kinda worried that so and so might not like me Everyone says that we should go out. Wer have b een friends since 5th grade and we have good laughs and he is funny and everyone says common how obious is it that they haver feelings for eachother, but i just ignore everything but i have feelings for this person but idk ih the other so and so has feelings for me and i just need help because im clueless. I go to Saint vincent depaul skool hope u can help:) (link)
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Wow, I remember those days. I am now 28 years old and I am a attractive, independent, loving mother, but I think I can help you. Honestly, you are going through adolescents right now, the both of you are. And whether or not you want to believe me, when you become 20, you will look back at this and laugh, and think, "Wow those were the easy days." When someone shouted that out loud and you automatically said, no, no, no, he is going to retaliate with the same. He doesn't want to be embarresed, just as you don't want to either. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He probably does, he just didn't want to get embarresed. So what I would do, if I were you, is maybe hint around to his friends that you do like him, and see what happens. Hope I have helped! BTW, if you think I am some crazy ugly woman, you can see for yourself that I am not on FB under Katie Elizabeth Miller, in Mt. Vernon, IN.
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