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how do i say what i really feel?!?!?!
Okayyy. so heres the thing. i know this guy likes me and he asked me out like 2X. 1st time his friends asked me for him and i paniced and said no like an idiot. cause i like him :/ than the 2nd time he asked me in person. i guess he didnt believe his friends. and right when i was about to say yes. i paniced again and said no. and walked off. now im getting really sick and tired of this!!! HELP ME!!! how do i go up to him and tell him that im actually interested. i dont want him to think im not. oh please o please HELP MEEE!!!
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From my own personal experience watching his expression makes you really nervous. Maybe you could talk to him online in a email or something explaining why you said no. Dont wait too long to make your move though or he might just move on. If your feeling brave just go up to him and blurt it all out. Im sure he will be quite happy when you tell him.
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Write him a note saying you panicked but really like him and wanted to say yes but was so surprized you said no.
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Just tell him that you want to talk to him about something and then just tell him what happened. Tell him that the fear of rejection got the best of you and you panicked and said the opposite of what you really wanted. Then ask him if his offer of going out with you was still good.
Here is the thing: guys are really dumb at reading women at any age, but especially when they are insecure teenagers. So you're going to have to be a little bold here. Good luck.
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go up to him and calmly exlain what happend. Or if your nervous give him a note.
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speak from your heart.
You must relax. I'm guessing you're pretty young, considering talking to a boy is difficult for you, and you're panicking about it. Just relax. He's just a boy. He won't bite haha. Breathe in deeply through your nose and out through your mouth. Slow deep breathes. Close your eyes before hand and just focus on your breathing. Relax your mind. Don't worry.
Go up to him and instead of thinking about what to say, think about something humorous like a clown behind him with a bucket of water over his head. Be happy. If you're nervous and scared, your facial emotions and body language will show, and he might get intimidated or scared too. If you show that you're happy and relaxed, he will feel happy and relaxed too. Maybe before you talk to him, just start laughing and smiling. That will help get you in a good mood.
Then just speak from your heart. Don't plan out what to say- thats so fake haha. Just be like "hey, you know how you asked me out? well I am really interested" and then smile., Be flirty!!!
wear something cute that day, curl your hair or do something cute with it. Touch him and just be flirty with him. SMILE a lot!! that will show that you have confidence in yourself. And guys think confidence is sexy.
be yourself too :) don't try to be something you're not. You'll be okay haha. Like i said- its just a boy. he wont bite your head off or anything. worst thing that could happen is that he says No and doesn't like you. big deal. if he does say that- just shake it off casually and say "ok we can just hang out another time then" and walk away with pride, because you talked to him.
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Easy....Just walk up to him, calm and collective looking like you are a rockstart and the only girl in the room, and you know that you are an amazing girl, and say, "Hey, I'm really sorry that I told you no when you asked me out the (other day/last week;whenever it was), I just had so much going on that day. I just wanted to tell you... That if you ever asked me out again.... I would definitly say yes, (with a big sexy smile on your face). It's just been crazy lately." And wait for his reaction...Which should be good, but maybe a little confusing on his end, because you did tell him no twice, but now that you have just presented him with this, it looks as though you have a TON of courage and are not afraid of anything. And to a guy, that is very attractive.
I gaurenTEE you he will ask you out. Trust me on this. Just when you start to get nervous, think of it as acting... Just think of what you are about to say, so you say it just as cool and as collective as you want it to come out, then after that, start walking toward him with your head held high. I hope this helps! I'm positive it will. I am a 28 year old female, and think about those good ol' high school/jr. high days, and man, were they easy compared to life now. You will look back at this, and think the same thing!
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