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Young, but I have the mind of a 50 year old.
Gender: Female
Member Since: May 21, 2011
Answers: 10
Last Update: May 21, 2011
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well im gonna be a greaser for something at school and i don know what i should use for my hair so please help me out (link)
they used to use Chicken Fat


I am a teenage girl who obviously loves shopping :) But the thing is, I don't have anyone to go shopping with. My mom lives very far away. I don't really have many girl friends. The girl friends I do have, well it would be awkward to go shopping with them since I don't know them very well and we barely hang out outside of school. I haven't really gone shopping and bought something since a year ago. I have gone shopping though with my boyfriend.. but I always come home empty handed. I just always feel bad dragging him with me to go shopping for clothes. Since I don't have anyone to really go shopping with... should i just go shopping alone? I've never shopped alone before, it sounds scary. I don't want to look like a loner. When I'm in the mall, I see girls my age who are always with a group of friends. I just don't want people to see me and be like "oh she's alone. sad."

what should I do?? (link)
If its bugging u tht much try getting to know your girl friends better or find some new ones. Like the ones u c at the mall.


okay so this is going to probabaly be long okay so there is this guy and we started talking awhile ago and his great his nice and he makes it obvious he likes me and i liked him so then in school i would be a total bitch and ignore him because i was embarrest of him because my friends said he was ugly so after that we stopped talking for a long time and during this time he went out with one of my friends for two weeks and she broke up with him and told me it was because her life was stressedfull and he was just adding to it, and two weeks after they broke up we started talking again and we some how told each other we like each and he said that since he just got out of a relationship w should just get to know eachother for a while and and i agreed. so then i told my aunt all this and she said that he was going to use me as a rebound. and i just dont know. his 15 and im 15.
so should i keep talking to him or am i just going to be his rebound??? (link)
i would go along wit it and see how things turn out. if its bad hes obviously not good for you and if it goes good uve made yourself happier in the process


Okayyy. so heres the thing. i know this guy likes me and he asked me out like 2X. 1st time his friends asked me for him and i paniced and said no like an idiot. cause i like him :/ than the 2nd time he asked me in person. i guess he didnt believe his friends. and right when i was about to say yes. i paniced again and said no. and walked off. now im getting really sick and tired of this!!! HELP ME!!! how do i go up to him and tell him that im actually interested. i dont want him to think im not. oh please o please HELP MEEE!!! (link)
go up to him and calmly exlain what happend. Or if your nervous give him a note.


I know it will affect my family. There is NO WAY out of the financial mess I got myself in to.
I have tried everything possible, nothing works. (link)
Then seek help. Get welfare until your back up on your feet. Use tht money to pay off you r debts. While ur there get 2 jobs and dont get fired.


me and my girlfriend after a year and a half broke up. I need her back. I leave for the military in august and want to make the best of a relationship with her. I truly love this woman. pleease help. We still talk, and she knows how I feel, but what can I do to make feel what she used to feel for me. (link)
You can't make anyone feel a certain way about you. Maybe write her a poem or song. A love letter. Or maybe she'll realize she feels the same way when you leave.


so, im working at a camp this summer and i want a good impression on the guys, because ive always been tht girl who every guy is friend and only friend they never look twice, so this summer i want it to be more??? have any ideas (link)
Make the first move. If you find a guy u like become his friend and ask him out. Guys don't need t omake the first move. But be yourself. Don't change anything unless u want in that case do what feels comfortable.


will an overdose of sleeping pills work, and be relatively painless? (link)
Think. Every problem has a solution. Suicide aint the answer. Your only going to hurt those around you. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. And you won't reach the light by commiting suicide. Don't do it. Get help from a professional now.


Okay I haven't gone swimming since I was a little girl and when I did I've always worn one pieces so yeah.

I'm not too keen on the whole bikini thing even though I'm almost going to graduate high school this year so I figured bikini top and shorts would be less revealing than wearing bikini bottom.

But short swimming shorts...are you supposed to wear something underneath like a bikini bottom? I just feel like that's wearing real pants with no underwear! (link)
It's up to you. I would cuz maybe later you'll feel more comfortable and want to wear the bikini bottom.


My best friend is going through a hard time with her family. Her mom is a homosexual, her father is going through a divorce with a bitch who was always mean to her. She is very protective of me and our other friend. She said that she " will enjoy every scream and every drop of blood someone spills that she causes after they try to hurt us. I've been really worried about her,and I insisted that we take her to a couseler since she won't let me help. She began cutting herself saying she "aches to see blood." She got mad at me for "thinking there was something wrong with her" but I'm just worried. She starts to go toward someone to hit them then stops. She always tries to help everyone else saying she comes last. She won't let me help, and she hates attention so why is she doing this? Whats wrong? Please help- Worried friend (link)
I think u should let her figure this out on her own. Shes probably stronger than u think. She also reminds me of me. I did that at one point but realized i was hurtin the people round me. Back off for awhile and let her do what she wants she'll grow out of it. It's simply a stage.




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