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how to make a good impression ???
so, im working at a camp this summer and i want a good impression on the guys, because ive always been tht girl who every guy is friend and only friend they never look twice, so this summer i want it to be more??? have any ideas
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So what are you going to do when camp ends and those guys split for home?
Here is what you do: relax. Have fun. If you meet a guy and hit it off then great, but if not, no big deal. Teenage relationships are seldom meaningful anyway.
If you do see a guy staring at you, though, and you're interested, just wave at him. That gives him an opening to make the next move. If he's next to you, just ask him what's up and then other questions about himself like, "where are you from?" What is it like there?," etc. People like talking about themselves. Be nice and smile a lot.
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Make the first move. If you find a guy u like become his friend and ask him out. Guys don't need t omake the first move. But be yourself. Don't change anything unless u want in that case do what feels comfortable.
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try making a statement.
wear different types of clothes you normally dont wear- like a cute dress.
get a makeover done. makeovers can be more than just makeup. Get your hair done, like a hair cut or some pretty highlights to stand out. Maybe lose a few extra pounds if you are overweight. Buy some new makeup (maybe try something new like blue eyeliner or green eyeshadow to make your eyes pop). buy some pretty jewlery to stand out.
Next, you need to have an outgoing, friendly, yet flirty attitude. My guess is that you weren't flirty enough earlier because you said you were only 'just a friend'. So try to be extra flirty. Giggle a lot, touch guys like on their arms or hug them a lot. Smilee!!! guys love girls who are always happy and smile a lot. Always have a story or something to tell. Never be that boring girl who says "uhh i don't know what to say". Always keep the conversation going, even if you have to pull out a random stupid joke. Keep the energy high (so don't start talking about horses and your favorite pony, otherwise they might fall asleep haha). Always stay positive. Don't bring up negative thoughts or anything.
and most importantly... BE YOURSELF! I cant stress that enough. Don't try to be something you're not. You are unique. Nobody else looks like you, or is you. Embrace that! Be proud of who you are and don't try to change yourself just to impress people. That will actually not impress them. It will just make you look bad.
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