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Is he just using me for a rebound?
okay so this is going to probabaly be long okay so there is this guy and we started talking awhile ago and his great his nice and he makes it obvious he likes me and i liked him so then in school i would be a total bitch and ignore him because i was embarrest of him because my friends said he was ugly so after that we stopped talking for a long time and during this time he went out with one of my friends for two weeks and she broke up with him and told me it was because her life was stressedfull and he was just adding to it, and two weeks after they broke up we started talking again and we some how told each other we like each and he said that since he just got out of a relationship w should just get to know eachother for a while and and i agreed. so then i told my aunt all this and she said that he was going to use me as a rebound. and i just dont know. his 15 and im 15.
so should i keep talking to him or am i just going to be his rebound???
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Can't hurt to keep the lines of communication open.
He's a pussy, though. It's pretty obvious that the opinion of your girlfriends is more important to you than his feelings. I mean, you pretty much emasculated him when you broke up with him like that. Yet, he is coming back for more.
Look, let this be a lesson to you: do not let others tell you how you should handle your personal life unless you are doing something destructive (either to him or to you) by being in that relationship. You are the only one who can live your life. So take control of it and if others don't like it tell them to take a hike!
Your friends suck, btw. If you keep them around they will cause you more problems with future boyfriends. Most guys hate it when their girlfriend's friends are around. When you are with your boyfriend, your friends have to get lost. Got that?
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i would go along wit it and see how things turn out. if its bad hes obviously not good for you and if it goes good uve made yourself happier in the process
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