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If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it?
16 and 17 year old girls, what are your opinions on and experiences of sex?
Being a 16 year old girl turning 17 in two months, and still a virgin, and also the kind of girl people assume have had sex, I'm definitely not comfortable with my lack of experience, and can't come up with any reasons why I havn't had sex except for, well, it just hasn't HAPPENED.
So I'm interested to know what other girls my age think. Have you had sex or are you a virgin? If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it? If you've had sex, how did you lose your virginity, what is your sex life like now and how do you feel about it?
A lot of detail (though obviously I'm not asking for anything too personal or graphic, just your thoughts on the subject) because I really hate being a virgin at my age, and would like to know what your views are.
I'd really appreciate answers, thankyou!
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i'm 16 going on 17 and i am not a virgin, i lost my v-card at age 15.
i was with the guy at the tim and i was EXACTLY, COMPLETELY where you are (except one year younger) when it happend there was no emontion with me until the next morning. after a few week we started to drift apart then we got to the point where we jus broke up.
honestly i would have to say i wish i would have never gave it up so soon. i think it's better to wait and give it up to a guy you lov, or REALL REALY like.
even though i wish i would have waited or tun back the hands of tie, whats done is done and i can't. but i'm not gonna sit here and try to scare you into keeping it because, no lie sex is fun when your with the guy you love. But there will be those times you will want it back and then again it might not bother you at all. :/
so i say the choice is yours, if you know without a boubt that your ready and you don't have to think about it or ask questions about it... go ahead. But if you wonder about it and your not sure... wait, and don't do it.
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Well I'm 16 and I'm a virgin. I think the reason why is because I'm waiting for the right guy to come. A lot of guys did me wrong in the past and that's all they wanted from me. So that's when I decided I'm going to wait until I'm in love. And there is so many diseases going around these days so I want to be very careful who I decide I want to have sex with.
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I'm 19 and not a virgin. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at 18. I am so glad I waited for him and didn't just have sex with anyone who so happened to want to have sex with me.
We waited 2 months before we did it. I knew he was special and I trusted him completely. I'm especially glad I waited for someone special because I bled a lot and it hurt somewhat so I was a little freaked out but he was great and supportive and cared about me. It actually turned out to be an amazing experience because we learned so much about each other and it truly brought us much closer together.
We've been together now for 1 year 3 months and we are planning on getting engaged when he gets back from his deployment. (he's in the military)
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16f, and I lost it at 16. The guy i was with is just a guy I was talkin to and happened to go a little too far with. I didnt have any emotion toward it after. I wasnt mad or sad or happy or glad. But I expected to feel some sort of emotion, it just felt like something I could do everyday, like it was just a normal thing and not a big deal at all that I just lost my virginity. So i was like whats the fuss about all of that, it was simple.
I dont know how else I could have been ready for it. I just wish that him and I were in a relationship. I dont feel like "omg i wish i never did that" I just feel like wow I should have been smarter and thought about what was really going to happen and then decided. I was exactly the same as you [in your description of yourself..like EXACTLY. and my advice is that you dont want it to just "happen"...it should be someone you love or at least reallly like and are in a relationship with, because people handle things different, so you might be emotionless afterwards like me. Also, I think after we had sex, it pushed us apart abit, more fights and drama. Everyone just needs to take their time and do it when they're ready. And be safe, use a condom use birth control. I wasnt completely safe, so I was also very nervous after. Dont put yourself through that. Just because every other 16 yr old girl is running around all "experienced" doesnt mean you have to be.. take your time and let things progress when you are ready and even if you are ready, it could be that you just havnt found the right person, so just keep waiting. =]
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I am 17 and i am not a virgin, i lost my virginity when i was 15. I had been with my boyfriend for a year before we had sex and we are still togetherr. Yes i was young, but i dont regret it becuase i love him and he loves me, i was perfectly comfortable with him and i stil am. If i dont want to do something, he wont make me. He is very respectful that way. I trust him and we have been together for 3 years now. We had some problems a while back and havent had sex for about 6 months but this hasnt changed our relationsip at all. So its just when your comfortable with someone! dont do something you wil regret!
Hope i helped (:
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Hello :)
I'm 18 and I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity when I was 14 because back then I was very naive and didn't know how to say no. I was literally just a little girl in my opinion.
Losing your virginity may not seem like a big thing at first, but it really is. It's YOU. Something you've held on to for so long. If I could go back in time I would stay a virgin until I was married...
Your sex life improves as you mature and have intimate relationships with people. If you get a boyfriend or girlfriend, I would tell you to make them wait, make sure they fall in love with you, and you with them. Make sure the relationship is secure and not full of lies and dishonesty. Make it happen with that special someone :)
Good luck, and hope I helped!
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hi. im 17 and i am still a virgin. im a virgin and glad i am. im going to wait till im comfortable with a guy. i perfer my first time to be with a guy who is a virgin because i know he is clean and havent been with other people. because most guys i know who arent virgins have been with more than one person and those people have been with other people. also i dont want to have sex and then regret it, or get played. and when you have sex there is some much worries. but without having sex i wont have to worry about anything. also for my first time i want it to be with someone i enjoy and will be proud to say he was my first. so just make sure that when you lose it make sure its when someone you will be happy to lose it too
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I am 18 a recently did it a couple months ago with my boyfriend who i love. Before than I did always feel insecure about my lack of experience and felt like an outsider when ever my friends talked about that kind of stuff. Honestly I think people have start having sex way to young. In my experence sex ties you to the person your with in a way you can't explain. For me I experenced this with my boyfirend, but I know girls who have just hooked up and it really does mess with you in some way. Anyway I went on a trip over the summer where I met about 15 different kids from around the country, who were all about 17 and they were all virgins expect for one!! (lol they were not like werid nerdy kids, they were totally normal) Anyway I was blown away by that and realized it might just be the town I am in, or the people I hang out with but there are a lot of people not doing it! This gave me the confindence to not feel so bad about being a virgin at 17. I realized its not werid and sex is something that should be taken seriously.
Also I was always worried what guys would think of my lack of experience.... my boyfriend actually loves it...he say he likes that I am untainted by anyone else lol.
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I'm 18, and I'm still a virgin. I chose to be, there were many instances where I felt like I was being forced or felt I was about to have sex but I never did. I always think in my mind, I want to be mature when I have sex, not 15, 16 or 17. Your young and stupid. I felt at those ages It's all peer pressure. Whenever, I feel like your feeling (lack of experience, everyone's doing it except me) I ask myself:
*Would you rather have sex and then the guy just leaves you, how would I feel if that happened?
*Would you have sex and then realize your not ready and then the guy wants to do it all the time?
*Do I want to have to visit the gynocologist (sp?) and explain to my parents why?
Still being a virgin may be embarrassing but I'm proud. In today's society not many people make it that far and I'm not regretting it at all. I feel better about myself and that I've made a good decision for waiting. Don't take it soo hard, don't you want to do it with Prince Charming and not some drunk guy at a bar for a one time only deal?
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