16/F
LAst night my boyfriend and i weren't planning on doing anything jus, out to eat and watch a movie at his house. Well after we ate we went to his place and pop in the movie Paranormal. usually scary movies don't scare, but this one did. so i was like jumping all over him and he had his arms around me.
well idk what part of the movie it was but things started to get heatd and before i knew it we were in his bed. now i'm not a virgin but last night i felt like one. we didn't do anything because it hurt so bad when he tried to put it in.
i want to have sex with him because we've been datein for a long time and i'm ready... or was. But i'm afraid that if we do i would suffer from internal bleedind or i would have to be rushed to the ER.
1st. is it possible to suffer internal bleeding?
Can i REALY be rushed to the ER?
Is there some way we can do this with out me getting hurt?
Is this normal to have had sex b4 and now it hurt this bad?
if its any help i haven't had sex for a year and a 1/2 now, could that be it?
Can some one PLEASE give me answers or advice???
i think u should do it. i mean if you have had sex before then you should know wat is big enough to hurt you but its probably because its been so long since you've had sex
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Hi i'm 25/m and I have an amazing gf I have been with almost 3 years. I love her very dearly and am ready to marry her. Only problem is I tend to screw things up by talking to other girls behind her back. I don't try to flirt but I guess I get creepy. I then lie to her about things cause i'm scared to lose her. Can anyone please help me figure out why I do this and how I can stop doing it. After the last time I could never do it again but she doesn't trust me as she shouldn't. I am willing to do anything it takes to fix my life. I have even started contacting psychologists.
you should tell gf about it because 9 times out of 10, you might be doing it for the excitement, the sneaking around and ect. so if you tell her it wont be as exciting and you will be less likely to do. but thats my oponion
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16 and 17 year old girls, what are your opinions on and experiences of sex?
Being a 16 year old girl turning 17 in two months, and still a virgin, and also the kind of girl people assume have had sex, I'm definitely not comfortable with my lack of experience, and can't come up with any reasons why I havn't had sex except for, well, it just hasn't HAPPENED.
So I'm interested to know what other girls my age think. Have you had sex or are you a virgin? If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it? If you've had sex, how did you lose your virginity, what is your sex life like now and how do you feel about it?
A lot of detail (though obviously I'm not asking for anything too personal or graphic, just your thoughts on the subject) because I really hate being a virgin at my age, and would like to know what your views are.
I'd really appreciate answers, thankyou!
i'm 16 going on 17 and i am not a virgin, i lost my v-card at age 15.
i was with the guy at the tim and i was EXACTLY, COMPLETELY where you are (except one year younger) when it happend there was no emontion with me until the next morning. after a few week we started to drift apart then we got to the point where we jus broke up.
honestly i would have to say i wish i would have never gave it up so soon. i think it's better to wait and give it up to a guy you lov, or REALL REALY like.
even though i wish i would have waited or tun back the hands of tie, whats done is done and i can't. but i'm not gonna sit here and try to scare you into keeping it because, no lie sex is fun when your with the guy you love. But there will be those times you will want it back and then again it might not bother you at all. :/
so i say the choice is yours, if you know without a boubt that your ready and you don't have to think about it or ask questions about it... go ahead. But if you wonder about it and your not sure... wait, and don't do it.
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Our school's sadie hawkins dance is coming up and I got asked. I don't want to just say "yes." I want to do something fun or different because this girl is really special and I want her to remember me in a special way even after the dance.
Any ideas? ladies what would you think was wonderful and leave you thinking happy thoughts about a guy if he did when you asked him to sadies?
Thank you and I promise to rate everybody!
well most girs like some kind of romantic suprise, or something from the heart. so i would say..
1) after the dance take her out to eat at her favorite place.
2) try something like a walk on the beach. (if you have one where you stay)
3) get two tickets to the movies or a concert.
4) instead of going out make plans to go and cook, most girls like guys who can cook.
and if all else fails just bring some cash with you, ask her while your at the dance what would she like to do after the dance, and be ready for any answer she gives you.
hope i helped you a little bit.
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I'm 15 and have recently found out that I'm pregnant the guy wants nothing to do with it and i've been really stressed out about it, people keep saying you can hit yourself in the stomach and make yourself miscarriage is this true ? and what are the symptoms of miscarriage.. thank you
hitting yourself in the sthomic is a bad idea. even if your parents get mad go to them, because hitting yourself in the sthomic could not only kill the baby, but can possibly kill you to. A best friend of mine was in the same place you are in. she told her mom and for a few days her mom was mad when her mom got over it they talked about it. giving the baby up for adoption, abortion, and got all the facts on what was going on in her belly. she decided to keep the baby which is due june 15.
so tell your parents they may get mad for a while, but nothing could be worse than loosing your life or makeing the wrong choice because of some guy. Plus if you keep the baby, you'll never know what he/she could grow up to be.
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if you fell in love with a guy that was your friend and he doesnt want to talk to you after you broke up with them and he calls u a bunch of names that you dont like what do you do?
well not all people take break ups well, but if you were friends in the first place and he's calling you names now, the best advice i could give you is to try and stand tall and ignore him and move on.
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