Our school's sadie hawkins dance is coming up and I got asked. I don't want to just say "yes." I want to do something fun or different because this girl is really special and I want her to remember me in a special way even after the dance.
Any ideas? ladies what would you think was wonderful and leave you thinking happy thoughts about a guy if he did when you asked him to sadies?
Lets say you do something ridiculous and over the top. You're not likely to do ridiculous and over the top all that often, its not like its anyone's normal modus operandi. So you take a shot, maybe she's thrilled and maybe you just made a complete ass of yourself, and then you're seemingly alot more normal after that.
Or, you do consistent small things. Bring her a rose when you say yes, randomly bring her flowers, notes, whatever.
Smaller more regular bits of attention work alot better than going overboard. You've already gotten asked, she likes you. Being ridiculous doesn't say you like her, it says you're trying to impress her. She's already impressed, if you want to make her feel special take her to the dance and get to know her. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Saturday February 6 2010, 12:01 am: i've always wanted a guy who leaves me hanging with intrigue. for example- make little notes and leave each one somewhere and make it like a scavenger hunt to find another. or like a riddle or something. or in school, during each hour, send her a bouquet of flowers with a note in each of them.
make her prolong the moment ya know? like dont just do 1 think right away. make it a series of events.
-aggresivelove answered Friday February 5 2010, 8:13 pm: well most girs like some kind of romantic suprise, or something from the heart. so i would say..
1) after the dance take her out to eat at her favorite place.
2) try something like a walk on the beach. (if you have one where you stay)
3) get two tickets to the movies or a concert.
4) instead of going out make plans to go and cook, most girls like guys who can cook.
and if all else fails just bring some cash with you, ask her while your at the dance what would she like to do after the dance, and be ready for any answer she gives you.
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