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SCARED,HE MIGHT BE TOO BIG OR I'M TOO TIGHT!
16/F
LAst night my boyfriend and i weren't planning on doing anything jus, out to eat and watch a movie at his house. Well after we ate we went to his place and pop in the movie Paranormal. usually scary movies don't scare, but this one did. so i was like jumping all over him and he had his arms around me.
well idk what part of the movie it was but things started to get heatd and before i knew it we were in his bed. now i'm not a virgin but last night i felt like one. we didn't do anything because it hurt so bad when he tried to put it in.
i want to have sex with him because we've been datein for a long time and i'm ready... or was. But i'm afraid that if we do i would suffer from internal bleedind or i would have to be rushed to the ER.
1st. is it possible to suffer internal bleeding?
Can i REALY be rushed to the ER?
Is there some way we can do this with out me getting hurt?
Is this normal to have had sex b4 and now it hurt this bad?
if its any help i haven't had sex for a year and a 1/2 now, could that be it?
Can some one PLEASE give me answers or advice???
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You might have a little infection.
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you might have healed. you might have an infection
or you werent "hot" yet try foreplay.
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i think u should do it. i mean if you have had sex before then you should know wat is big enough to hurt you but its probably because its been so long since you've had sex
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A vagina is designed the a BABY through it. Now your boyfriend may be well endowed, but it's unlikely the circumfrance of his penis rivals that of a baby's head.
Internal bleeding? Not likely. Normal bleeding because the vagina isn't used to having something big pushed inside it? Probable. There's no need for ER. If you continue to bleed for several days then you need to see your doctor but I doubt it will come to that.
A really important part of sex many people overlook is foreplay. It's not as important for the guy because all they need to do is get an erection but for girls, it's almost essential. When you get turned on, your vagina produces a natural lubricant which helps the penis enter more easily. As an example, try pushing your finger through your fist while it's dry, then add some moisturiser and notice the difference. Now try and compare that to your vagina. It's likely that you weren't lubricated enough which added to the pain. If you find no matter how turned on you are, you still aren't getting 'wet' enough then try a shop bought lubricant such as KY Jelly. It's also really important that you are completely relaxed as tense muscles will cause you discomfort.
Regardless of that, for some girls it takes a few times for sex to stop being slightly uncomfortable. If you only had sex once before or the person you slept with wasn't particularly big then those can both be contributing factors.
If you find that no matter how many times you have sex it's still painful then visit your doctor to make sure everything's okay down there.
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