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Member Since: February 4, 2010
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Last Update: February 4, 2010
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So I got back with my ex (23/M) and its been almost a month we've been together. According to him, he's going all out on Valentine's Day.

I don't have a clue what to get this guy!
He likes the Bruins (but everything is expensive and he has a lot of stuff)
We tend to joke around a lot with each other so funny jokes and humor are good!

I don't know what to do...its driving me CRAZY!

Any suggestions?

Sincerely,
InSanE (link)
btw - i LOVE your username lol
.. what i think you should do is give him something that comes from your heart . dont worry if its not as expensive as the stuff he has .. he'll be happy ebough it came from you


17/f
So this guy asked me to the valentines day dance and it's next sat! I'm not gonna lie I really really want to impress him because I'm starting to really like him. We both like eachother but I'm pretty sure I like him more than he does me. He also likes one of my friends and his best girl that's a friend. They talked bout it a while back and don't want a relationship with eachother until way future if ever because they love their friendship. She's told me he likes me and he already knows I like him. He could have asked her to the dance but asked me instead! Also he very artistic and drew me a picture which I love and in his french class made me a card along with making her one but they're just friends and I know this for sure. It wasnon French but he told me what it says and it says be my valentine on the end. Mushy I know but I love that. How can I impress him?! I really like him and want that to be mutual!! Ahh please help! (link)
a good way to impress him is find out what he likes so much about you & use it .. or you can use one of your awesome talents & do something for him as well .. good luck


In advance: I get that this "dilemma" may seem ridiculous, but it's been bothering me. If you're only here to be sarcastic, move along. First off, I'm a girl. I've been thinking a lot lately about my HS Prom for some reason, and how it's going to work out for me.

Let's just say that I will not have a date. Not a lot of people really go to Prom with dates at my school, most people just go with large groups.

I mainly hang out with three other girls who, let's just say, are very anti-school event and pretty much everything-event. They hardly ever even go out. Which means I hardly ever hang out with them outside of school. We have a lot of fun when we're together, and we're good friends. But for some reason it never seems like they want to chill on the weekends.

My best friend, Jane, is heavily involved in student gov't so she is on an acquaintance-level with a lot of people. Plus Jane has a friend, Sue who has a lot of friends that Jane kind of knows. Jane will likely be going to the Prom with Sue and her friends. One of the friends that Sue will be going with in this group is Mary, a girl whom I have personally been friends with for a long time but only hang out with outside of school. (Yes, I'm sorry this is confusing.) The thing is: I do know Jane, Sue, and Mary. But I feel uncomfortable with asking to go along with them to the Prom, because chances are they won't bother to see if I want to go with them. Personally Sue and Mary are nice but VERY cliquey. And I could be wrong, my best friend Jane might not even go with Jane and Mary's group of friends (probably about 10).

Now, one of my anti-social event friends, Kate, has been insinuating things about her prom dress every so often. For all this time in HS, she has been saying how Prom is stupid and how she doesn't want to go, and I've been the one trying to convince her to go because, of course, I want people to go with! And this is where it gets even more confusing. Paula, who is a member of the Sue/Mary clique knows Kate on an acquaintance-level and for some reason to me (though I don't know for sure) it seems like Kate is planning on going with the Sue/Mary group because of the way she talks to Paula. (I don't know how I know this exactly, but... it just seems like it. I could be wrong though.) The bad part about it is that I don't think that Paula likes me. At all. She's always been very sarcastic to me. First of all, it kind of hurts me that Kate wouldn't even want to think of me first to go to Prom with me and the other two girls we usually hang out with at school (if they even want to go...). But, I could be wrong... Kate might be thinking that she and I will still go together.

AGH. This was long, and whiney-sounding... but, my final question is: What should I do? I can't go to Prom alone obviously and I can't go with just one person. I feel weird about asking Mary if I can go with their group to the Prom because I know some folks in their group don't like me much. But I think that my two best friends, Jane and Kate, are going with this clique. I feel like I'm just going to end up alone, not even going to Prom.

But the fact of the matter is that I don't even CARE about Prom that much. I just want to go so that people won't ask me later, "Why didn't you goooooo?" "Where are your Prom pictures?" And then assume I didn't have any friends or a date to go with and start to think I'm a loser. But then I think, maybe by that time I'll be so happy about going to college that I won't care about this petty Prom stuff.

Basically, I'm a socially awkward person. Please help by letting me know what you think. (link)
dont worry about it .. it's highschool , have fun .. im a high school student myself & if you dont want to go , then dont .. & i am SO socially awkward sometimes too .. dont worry about what people think .




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