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What should I do


Question Posted Thursday March 18 2010, 3:04 am

I am thinking about killing someone. I know I shouldn't but I can't stop thinking about it

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russianspy1234 answered Tuesday March 23 2010, 10:21 am:
There is nothing wrong with thoughts and fantasies, as long as that's all they are. Everyone has thoughts they would never actually act on. If that's all this is to you, then there is nothing to worry about. But if it seems to you that you are actually planning to go through with it, then do as the others have said and get yourself some help.

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sarline answered Thursday March 18 2010, 6:04 pm:
don't think about it. just clear your mind. you know you are not that kind of person. If its something that you feel won't stop until you kill it, then get help from a trusted person or adult. Guilt is not something you will like and wishing to redo things won't work.

Think before acting....... Don't think about killing though.

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gloriaword answered Thursday March 18 2010, 4:09 pm:
if u kiiled someone youknow that it wil get you in trouble
you have to choice either to follow your hood heart or follown your bad heart that it going to lead you a lots of consequences at the end
just ask yourself this question..... how are you going to feel if they killed one of your closes person, my advice is to follow your good heart my dear take that bad conscience away from your life man
do the right think before its too late

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adviceman49 answered Thursday March 18 2010, 11:56 am:
I can only add to KarenR's advise which is excellent advice.

If there is no one around to help you go to the neares hospital emergency room tell them you are experiencing Homicidal Ideation. Big words but they will understand them. If you cannot get to the emergency room or the adults in your life do not beleive you pick up the phone and dial 911 or what ever the emergency number is in your country. Tell them the same thing, that you are experiencing Homicidal Ideation.

What will happen is you will be asked to stay on the phone with them while they dispatch help to you. You can expect police and Fire Rescue service to respond. The police are responding to make sure everyone is safe. They are there to help you as is the Fire Rescue people. The police are not there to arrest you or harm you in any way only to help. Do as the call taker tells you to do when the police and Fire Rescue arrive and the Fire Rescue people will take you to the hospital for help.

Do this now before the Ideation becomes reality.

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karenR answered Thursday March 18 2010, 7:20 am:
If you think there is even a slight chance you could act on this, then you need some professional help.

Depending on your age, tell a parent or an older person what you are feeling. Make sure they understand you are serious. Tell them you need to talk to a professional. If you are on your own, then please seek advice from a doctor.

Whatever you do don't act on it. You are the one who will have to live with your actions for the rest of your life. It would torment you forever.
Prisons are not pleasant places to live & you would be living in one a very long time.

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candi4545 answered Thursday March 18 2010, 4:36 am:
Dont do it.
first off 25 to life is not worth that son of a bitch or bitchs life
you didnt give me much to go off of but let me try
if theve hurt you get THEM put away
there will ALWAYS be a cop out there somewere that will help you
it may seem like your life would be soooo much better without them there but the truth is that youll probably get caught
and even if you dont get caught years from now youll be living with what you did
knowing about how terrible it was
there are programs that you can inlist in a i think
and an anger management class would definetly help you deal with this
:) i hope this helps

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