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in love with the wrong guy
19/f
I think i might be in love with my boyfriends best friend, what should i do?
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You need to figure out if it is worth leaving your boyfriend to be with his best friend, as that may result in some problems. However, I advise you to figure out whether or not your best friend's boyfriend feels the same as you do, and if so, you should break up with your boyfriend. Best of luck, my friend, if you're really in love with his best friend -- you should be honest with him about it, if you think there is any chance with his best friend.
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there is nothing to be ashamed of
being in love is the most wonderfull thing, if you are in love with your boyfriend friend thats good because your heart love him
my advice for you is to foloww your heart
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Don't do anything to disrupt the relationship everything happens for a reason and if they happen to breakup wait a while it might make your friend uncomfortable if you jump right in. Wait until you know she's over him or has moved on to another guy before jumping in. I know how you feel but don't let jealousy get the best of you, who knows he might feel the same way.
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Don't do anything right now. Let this one play out for a bit. It sounds like you're not sure what's going on right now. You may be falling for him, but maybe its just a crush. Maybe he has some qualities that you wish your boyfriend has and your heart is confusing admiration with love. I think the important thing is that you don't completely destroy your relationship until you are sure about your feelings. So give it some more time, a couple of weeks or months at least. Keep an eye on your feelings, but keep them to yourself for now (unless you have a trustworthy friend of course). When you feel a bit more clear about everything, then you can make a decision. You may be surprised what a little extra time can do to clarify your feelings.
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THAT is a good question. Tell me more information about your situation. How long have you been dating, have you been exclusively seeing each other? Have you just met the best friend? What qualities are there in him that you don't see in your boyfriend? Let's chat via email, at your convenience: lpdearsusie@gmail.com when you have a few minutes, if you are serious about getting to the bottom of your feelings and making good decisions here. (Please rate me well as that assists me in helping others).
Look forward to hearing from you,
Dear Susie
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