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JAIL!!
so heres the deal
ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years on and off.. im really in love with him and this weekend was crazy.. friday we stayed in a hotel 2gether.. and we hang out all the time.. i live in missouri and he lives in illinois. he comes and picks me up all the time.. he calls me his shawty..
the thing is, hes bout 2 b locked up.. hes turnin himself in about 2 weeks.. im waitin on him.. hes not going in for something real bad, it was a big misunderstanding and hell be out real quick.. should i stay with him????/
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thats a difficult decision, i can imagine...but that all depends on you. If you truely love him, then you might not want to let him go, but if you really think that he might end up in jail again...
its all up to you. maybe this separation is coming at a good time, it will give you spme time to think. GoOd LuCk!!!
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Depends what this "misunderstanding" is. I sure wouldn't want to be associated with anyone like that.. but then again, 3 years is alot to throw away.
It's your decision girly. You're the one who knows him. Not us.
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If the reason for him going to jail was something as small as a misunderstanding then there is no reason to break up with him. Best of luck
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Whe people go to jail (which i hope doesn't happen to your boyfriend), they need people to come and see them, people whom they're close to. If he does, stay with him, he would need the support from somebody like you.
You seem to be a person who really cares about him and want nothing bad to happen to him. No matter how serious the charge is, stay with him.
I hope this helps,
triquetra
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When we hang out with people who are known for doing bad/illegal things (even if they don't, but have that reputation) we tend to be assumed just like them. It's called guilt by association.
It's up to you to decide if that is grounds for you to break up with him.
ygs-29/f
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If your guy did anything the least bit illegal, you should definitely call the relationship off. You do not want to be involved with somebody like that. Even if you can hold your own ground and not succumb to his ways, the cops could interrogate you about what went on, and you don't want to have the pressure to lie about something if you're still together. Simply put: if he did something bad, break up with him, because you could go down with him, one way or another.
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If this 'misunderstanding' involves physical violence, illegal drugs or weapons then NO you should not wait for him.
But it's up to you to make your own mistakes babe. We can only offer opinions.
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