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boobs
my boyfriend is obsessed with my tits. he always wants to go up my shirt and see them and everything. we love eachother so it's not like im uncomfortable with it and i honestly dont care, so i guess my question is..why do guys like boobs so much?
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I ask myself this everyday and i've come the the conclusion that...guys are obsessed with boobs because they dont have them. haha.
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I have also questioned this for awhile. I guess because we've always had them we are so used to them just being there and to guys they are absolutely fascinating. Who really knows, boys are weird (:
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I know eaxctly why you are confusing!!
Frankly i dont see the fuss about them but hey hehe
i asked my boyfriend this question as im so curious and he claims that they look nice and are soft to touch.
Thats his opinion, wont nesessarily be the right one cos everyone has different views cos frankly i dont think they look nice!!
Thats in no offense cos im straight and have no experience but from having them myself i just dont see the stigma behind them.
but to be fair, some men do have boobs. in the kindest way possible but they do. So its not common that a man will rush to play with them because he doesnt have them.
Not the greatest example i know im sorry.
Hope this helped a bit :)
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Jeanne hit it on the nose.
I'm a guy. I dont have boobs. Thus, the fact that girls have them is one of the things that separates us from you.
I'll give you a reverse example. My girlfriend loves playing with me. She doesnt have a dick, and so being able to play with one is fun for her.
I mean, I have a penis. Always have. Having a dick is not something thats new to me. The penis holds no mystery. I know what its like to have one.
I cant say the same for boobs. So I enjoy them when I get to play with them, because its not something I can do every day (well, it used to not be anyway)
Its also visual appeal. Men, for better or worse, are ugly. I mean, really. The male body is utilitarian and practical. Compare that to a girl. Women are curvy, hips, breasts, legs, butt, it all flows together and is very pleasing to look at. Very sensual. And being a tactile species, that which is fun to look at is also often fun to touch.
Honestly, part of it is probably hes just inexperienced. I used to think a woman's cleavage was the end all be all of existence. I thought that nothing was better. Then I became sexually active, and breasts werent off limits the way they had been before. Now, I just enjoy them. I still very much love playing, but they arent a huge taboo mystery any more.
But always will remain the fact, I dont have any, and so I will always want to play with someone else's.
Its like when you're 10 and some kid down the block has this great toy that you dont have, and you always want to play with it. Pretty much the same motivation.
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Hi Honey,
Well, guys are all different some are obssessed with boobs and some really don't care. I suppose it's just a nature of life opposite sex are attracted to what they don't have and boobs are just one of them.
Mandy
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Whenever I ask, guys say its because they feel cool and make us look more womanly.
There is also a scientific reason behind this. Boobs make us able to breast feed a baby and shows that we are capable of child bearing. Just like animals, guys look for girls that they can "mate" with. Suuposedly, guys are attracted to boobs for this reason.
Weird huh?
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Frankly, the more your boyfriend likes breasts, the less he probably likes you. A true man respects his girlfriend. I'd never ask to see a girl's breasts. It's dishonorable. It simply means he'd like to do more than go up your shirt.
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I've asked a few guys why they're so fascinated with boobs, and they've all said the same thing: "Because we don't have them." Hahaha
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lol you really wanna know?
because seeing a nice pair of tits gets us REALLY horny, they could be good friends, and you know you will be nothing more but friends... but you cant help but look once in a while. hahaha
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To tell you the truth, I don't really know why boobs are so fascinating to males. My guess is that they're just a form of excitement. Really, there's no telling... Men are strange.
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