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pictures of girlfriends
I have a very strange question to ask..but please bear with me.
Let's say a guy has a girlfriend that's really ugly. And I know I'm prettier than her. When he shares her pictures and puts her pictures up and is so proud of them...does he realize that she's ugly? or is he so glad that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't care WHAT she looks like, as long as she "belongs" to him. And in this case, he thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world?
Because it's getting annoying. This guy makes fun of my pictures, when I know I'm SO much prettier. But when he puts up her ugly pictures, he praises them. What am I supposed to say? It annoys me that he makes fun of me, when his girlfriend is disgustingly ugly.
I know it's shallow. =/
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First off she may not be beautiful but obviously he likes her, you know your prettier than her, and if he makes fun of your pictures you should just tell him that you don't like it when he doesn't, but beware of getting angry and saying well i'm prettier than your ugly girlfriend, because although that might be what you want to say, it will get you nowhere.x
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well. . . .
all i'm going to say is that it sounds like your jealous. sounds to me like you want to be with this guy, and you think because you're prettier than his girlfriend that he should like you more and want to go out with you.
lemme tell ya, that is NOT how the world works.
it's not shallow to think that, really. it would be shallow of him to dump his "ugly" girlfriend for you. what it is is vanity. you think that because you're pretty, you deserve all the best things and should get what you want. well that's bull shit. you get what you deserve (unless you come from money and can get whatever you want).
maybe this "disgustingly ugly" girl has quite a great personality. to me, that's much better than a vain pretty girl. really.
stop acting like you have to get everything you want because you're pretty. it's not right, and you can't go living your life like that.
-collin
p.s. i really don't care if you rate this a one. what i said was the truth, and you can either choose to deal with it or choose to ignore it. to be honest, i don't care if you listen to me, and i doubt you will.
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dont feel bad or put down by this guy. When a guy likes a girl, he LOVES everything about her. And to him, her appearance is perfect in his eyes becuase he cares about her so much. He obviousy doesent like you as a girlfriend, so he isnt going to praise your pictures and call you pretty, even if you are prettier than his girlfriend. When he makes fun of you, just ignore it becuase he probly doesent mean it. Guys are guys, and the feel like making fun of other people is like "manly" well some of them do anyway,
hope i helped =]
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Okay um what kind of answer are you looking for? It's his girlfriend..he's going to love and cherish her,and think everything about her is beautiful.You really shouldn't judge him and her like that..you should just leave him alone if he bugs you.I mean why still talk to him?
I don't know but this is kind of stupid to talk about..
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Wow that's a pretty mean thing to say bout her. I don't think he puts the pics up cos of the reasons that you stated above.
Whatever the case is, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some people think jessica alba is hot as hell, while some actually say she's ugly. Same thing for Susan Oh. I think she looks horrid. But there are tons of other people out there who thinks she's beautiful, not in a physical way but beautiful in the way she carries herself and all.
You think his gf is grotesque. But that doesn't mean he has and must share the same thoughts as you. He may have thought the same thing as you b4 he got to know his gf. But i guess love is blind and he chose to look at her inner beauty rather than her physical appearance. If he likes to make fun of your pictures, then let him. Why bother? You know you're pretttier then ok fine. Very good for you.
You can't please everyone. Everyone has their own mouth and they're entitled to say whatever they want. They wanna be irritating and mean? Let them. What's the point in trying to argue over this issue?
The worst thing in the world is having a bad character, not an ugly face.
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Well that's what you think.
You may think you are prettier but in his eyes, she is the most beautiful girl in the world. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She can be beautiful for the things she does and says, and even for her looks. He's happy that he's with her and he must love the way she loves if he shares her pictures.
You don't have say anything. You're not his girlfriend and if you think you're better, go ahead. It's his relationship and maybe he doesn't find you attractive. Everyone's different and less shallow than others.
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Maybe he's NOT shallow like you. Maybe he doesn't care about how she looks but about her personality. You THINK your so much prettier but maybe to him your ugly. AND of course he's going to be proud of the pictures, it's his girlfriend why the hell wouldn't he be. I have no idea what kind of answer you want for this because theres no question but next time, unless there is a question keep your shallow/conceited remarks to yourself.
ps. your ugly
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Who are you to judge him? If he thinks she's pretty, that's his business. He might think she has a better personality and she's prettier than you. And yeah, that is really shallow. You shouldn't judge people based on their looks. You sound really conceited. Maybe that's why he makes fun of the way you look, because you "know" you're so pretty. I'm just being honest.
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He praises them because that's the way he feels.
And are you prettier than she is? Taste is different for everyone, perhaps he doesn't think you're pretty.
Do you like him? You seem to be experiencing some issues people get when they like someone and are jealous.
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I wouldn't worry about it so much. He is most likely praising her pictures because he likes her for her personality and whatnot, rather than what she looks like, which all guys should learn to do.
I wouldn't get so worked up about it, though, there will be a perfect guy for you around the corner, that hopefully likes you for you, and not just for what you look like.
Looks grow old fast, but personality stays alive forever.
Best Regards,
Mariah
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