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why do people always leave?
whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Fuck them.
Forget them and move on.
I'm sorry but if people leave your life, then it's not your fault, it's theirs. Don't be so hung up over "losing" them because then you're just hurting yourself. Don't be angry with them or anything, you've probably had a lot of good times, and those are the things you can look back on. :) But don't mourn over them like your dead puppy. It was their decision to leave.
"It's not that we're losing friends, it's just that now, we're finding out who our real friends are."
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what's the point in wanting to give that person a chance?
you wanting to take risks with letting ppl in, is the best thing, becuz that gives a chance for them to get to know you. so later, if they do leave, they'll want to come back after they realize what a great person(however they like to remember you) you really are.
ppl come and go for many reasons, reasons we wish we could fix sometimes. but we cant, that person has to fix it themself.
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Here's a little thing that goes around on email a lot. It's kind of nice, and sort of answers your question:
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People come into you life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a slid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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well, thats just how life is. everyone goes through it. but those are the kinds of people who show us things in life. wether it is to love, to care for, or even friendship. those poeple show us alott. but they cant stay. maybe thats the reason why they come. to show us things that noone else can.
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It's just how the world works. Just remember, whenever an old door closes, a new one will open.
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It's just life. It happens to us all. I think the thing that keeps most people open to letting others into their life is that while that person is in your life, you're happy. Some think it's better to be happy for a limited amount of time than lonely for your entire life. Yes, it's hard to lose people, and it hurts, but here's a quote you can take into account:
"Don't frown because it's over. Smile because it happened."
Think about it.
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no one knows. i guess its life. sometimes ppl walk out of your life and trust me many have with me. its sad but letting someone in your life is a risk you take, to be happy for a moment. id rather be happy for a min then never at all.!
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i dont honestly know. people change, or they move, or they start hanging out with a different group of friends and drop you. I have friends from a few different groups, but i can still stay in most of their lives. some of them don't talk to me unless i talk to them. some of them have changed so much because of the people that they hang out with that part of me doesnt even want to be friends with them. i think people change and thats why they leave. i'm sorry if it doesn't answer your question directly, but i know it sucks and i know how it feels.
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