about

I'm Sammie, i'm 17. Feel free to ask me anything, dont be shy. ...BUT if you ask stupid questions, then you'll get stupid answers. loL! i guess that's the fun part. I like hanging out with friends, dancing in my underwear(ha ha), and many other things...

Ok kids...you kno what to do if you have any questions.

xoxo Sammie

advice

When you slow dance with a guy, where do you put your arms? if anyone knows a link to a good picture that shows it.. that would be great!! thanks

you can put your hands at the back of his neck..
http://www.fotosearch.com/IGS920/is371-087/

depending on how close you want to be you could dance with your head on his sholder or with your head on his chest if he's too tall.
http://www.fotosearch.com/IGS920/is371-085/

copy and paste those links to your search engine. ^_~

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im a varsity cheerleader and we just got back from camp and it was pretty tough. we stunted alot and im a base so my wrists hurt really bad. is there any way i can protect them? or do i just need to get used to it? also what can i do for my sore arms?

you should try a brace for your wrists. apply ice often....OR OR..(lol. ^_^) get some of this ointment stuff called "bengay" or this other stuff called,"icy hot." either one works REALLY GOOD on sore spots.

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So. You believe that faith in God will redeem you when the Apocolypse finally comes? Hmmm, interesting....

Can I just ask you a question though.

Are you infact a member of one of the 12 Tribes of Israel? Are you infact a member of the 144000 strong 'congregation' of chosen Jews who will ascend to Heaven on the day of Judgement to recieve their reward for being faithful?

No?

Then prepare to burn in hell with the rest of us :)

excuse me, i'm not saying that god will save anyone, but just becuz your a sinner that DOES NOT mean that everyone will burn in hell.

to have faith and love in god is so much more than JUST BEING in a congregation.

believe.

i'm sorry for you if you dont have love. NO ONE KNOWS WHO'S GOING.

gods the judge..like i said. and i'm not trying to be rude..but that was pretty rude how your trying to show me up when YOUR the one who needs the advice.

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Is it true that wearing sports bras most of the time makes your boobs saggy after awhile? Because I wear sports bras whenever I can because I think they're more comfortable. Thanks for answering!

ha ha. no my dear.


love.

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is it true that freshman grade doesnt count when you go to college?

truthfully, every year counts, but your 11th and 12 grade years REALLY count the most. so your 9th and 10th grade years are bologna. ha ha.

senior year is pretty fun i hear. i'm a senior this comming up school year, so i'm gonna have fun.

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this story might be a little long sorry....

anyway alright so this guy named steve. wow amazing..hott..perfect. you know the routine. anyway i have been in love with him. it was last year. for about a year and a half. so i know how to deal with love now. me and him have been through it all. we've always had a spark. we have even made out 6 times when we WEREN'T going out. don't think i'm a slut though. we like eachother. but he also likes this perfect girl cheerleader named brooklyn. he always has liked her since the 6th grade. he's always liked her more then me. it sucks but yea i've learned to deal.

well recently we got in this huge fight about nothing and he blocked me online. and i thought he would just like brooklyn now. (even though she hates steve and would never ever go out with him). and i have been so mean with him and to him because im disgusted with him and i just couldn't deal with it anymore. so then i find out he likes me. and it freaks me out because i have been the meanest person in the world to him. and i wasn't even supposed to find out. he sent me this thing that's like a trick where it's supposed to tell you whats you future with a girl and you have to type in all the girls names that you like and then it actualy sends to the person..which was me and he typed my name first then brooklyns. so wow who's confused now. me. and i have always loved him but i just didnt want to show it. i do though but he always thinks he can do things with me and i dont want it to be that way. but this may also be my only chance with him should i play hard to get or just go after him like i have for the past 2 and a half years?

and if i should play hard to get..any tips?

thankss sooo much

sooooooooooooooooo...
he's mainly playing hard to get with you, so maybe its your turn to do the same back to him. does he know that, that cheerleader girl doesnt like him like that? if he does, then that sucks for him. what REALLY sux is that he doesnt realize that he has a great girl in front of him right now. you basically said that you've loved him for almost 2 yrs now and he can only push you so far, with you going after him and such. he better stop pushing, becuz one day your gonna stop liking him and then he's gonna try to go after you and try to get you to like him again... SO, either play his game, or confront him.

true story..its happened to me before.

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I have a really bad sore throat. It hurts extremely bad when I swallow and it's hard to bare. It hurts when I talk but it also hurts even when I'm just sitting doing nothing. I had it yesterday, but it wasn't bad. Last night it got really bad and had 2 glasses of hot tea with sugar. That didn't work. This morning I woke up and it was worse. I had a hard candy "cold-eaze" or something of that sort. It just keeps getting worse. For lunch I had pb & j on soft bread with milk. It hurt so bad when I was eating. I'm guessing I shouldn't work out today? I'm trying to schedule a doctors appt. Until then, any ideas? Also, what kind of soup would you recommend for dinner? I dislike chicken noodle and I don't eat a lot of soup. I like tomato, but is there any kinds with veggies or maybe burger? Thanks!

you could try "beef stew." it has meat and veggies. its really good and soft on the throat. suck on a lot of cough drops, no matter how much you dont like them, cuz they start to work, trust me. ^_^


love.

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whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave?

what's the point in wanting to give that person a chance?

you wanting to take risks with letting ppl in, is the best thing, becuz that gives a chance for them to get to know you. so later, if they do leave, they'll want to come back after they realize what a great person(however they like to remember you) you really are.

ppl come and go for many reasons, reasons we wish we could fix sometimes. but we cant, that person has to fix it themself.

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Would you rather be told the truth that could potentially destroy your life and change everything you know, or a lie that would save you from the truths?

i'd rather know the truth upfront. you can fix things with the truth.
a lie would never help anything cuz you'd find out the truth sooner or later.

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Stories always seem to have happy ending, so why isn't real life the same?

this question basically revolves around ppl really.
ppl's reactions these days make this world into what it is. its up to the indivitual person whether they want a happy ending or not.

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If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change?

nothing. becuz everything in life happens for a reason. those reasons turn to lessons. and those lessons you learn from.

so if you want to go back and change/or HAVE to change something, then thats not learning and that would turn into regret.

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How can i get my boyfriend to kiss me?

aww..this is so cute. ok sorry, i had to say that. ^_^

try getting into a tickle fight, and when you do the tickling, that makes your body get closer to his...so then that means that your faces would get closer..and PRESTO! a kiss. lol.
well that works a lot. ha ha.

this sounds like one of those "how to" programs.

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Ok i weigh like 180-190 pounds and really dont have much of gut but anyways can it be possible to lose a lot of weight if you eat nothing but water and excercise by doing sit ups, crunches, and push ups every day? plus im gonna teach myself to skateboard so thats included. if so, how much weight would i lose? i'm planning on doing this for my whole summer vacation and yes i know it's kinda hard going with nothing but water but i've done this before and i only lasted half a month since i ended up constipated but now its gonna be even tougher my goal is 3 months which is like 90 days!

baby love, dont do that. just eat healthier foods like salads and stuff that has to do with the food pyramid and excercise. dont starve yourself, cuz when you actually start eating again, your body will want lots of food and that would make you gain LOTS of weight. so eat healthy regularly, and your body will sweat off most of the calories that you eat...and that's good. annnnnnnd your muscles will look pretty and healthy. ^_^

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14/f and my boyfriend is 16/f
we'll be together for 2 months on the 5 or july

lately he doesnt seem to care too much. like sometimes hell be the sweetst guy in the world, but other times hell be a complete asshole.
i really just want him to show that he cares about me more.
ive talked to him about it and he says he'll try, and he'll do really good for like a week, then he starts being a dick again, but randomly is really sweet like once a week.
what should i do?

honestly...if he keeps treating you like this then he's not worth your time.
its clear that you've tried to talk to him about it, but he keeps going on with treating you like dirt. that's wrong.

if your the type of girl who likes (good, clean) revenge, then this is how you do it: reverse the tables, give him a dose of his own medicine.

its not really revenge...its YOU trying to prove a point to HIM.









i didnt mean that he abused you or antying...i was trying to say that he was treating you unfairly (emotional wise).

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Ok Well a long time aog I knwo the sun was goign to go away and we would all die but that was goign to be way after I die so I guess it's ok but now there's news that we could all die in..i think 2012? Cuz of sun rays?

Now I'm scared and going crazy with WHAT IF..

Like the little children! So many of my relatives has little babies and now..omg I'm just so scared and going crazy.. and thinking stuff liek will it be a quick death or a slow death where we'll all burn?

Please help me I don't know how yet I can't even type all the things I'm feeling!

i know that this will be the most simplest answer i will ever give someone but:


GOD is your judge, the myans predict things and science is a load of crap. they're not god. and if you believe in god and have faith..

then theres nothing to be afraid of.

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/female. I always fight with my mom. Sometimes, we just get in little fights, but sometimes huge ones.

She always seems to be in a stressed out, angry,bad mood, and she is always snapping at me and making a big deal out of nothing.

It never fails, that every single night we argue. And to me, it always seems like it's her.
It IS her. I wouldn't have an issue if she would just leave me alone, and let me actually have a life.

I'M 13 YEARS OLD, AND SHE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME ABOUT GOING PLACES WITHOUT ADULTS.
She doesn't let me go TO THE CENTER OF TOWN WITH MY FRIENDS, becuase i'm 'too young'. We don't live in a bad area. It's a quiet place, and nothing ever happens here. I've never even gotten into trouble where she can't trust me anymore.

I want to live with my dad, and go to school in his town. He let's me have a life, without doubting me for a second.
I'm not a bad kid, I've never done anything wrong. Well, atleast not like majorly wrong like drugs or fighting or anything. I've told my mom i wanna live with my dad. She doesn't listen, and neither does he.

What can I do?! I can't even deal with this anymore.

I'm home alone for the ENTIRE SUMMER, and she won't let ANYONE come over for even like an hour while she's not here.

IM NOT A BAD KID, SHE HAS NO REASON FOR THIS DISTRUST.
She thinks just becuase I dress semi -"emo" in her oppinion, that i'm some horrible child that can't be trusted. This is SO GAY, what do i do!?

i JUST RECENTLY went through this SAME THING. i'm 17 yrs old and my mom still picks fights with me. She's been under alot of stress...so that caused her to snap at everyone..mostly me. So i thought to myself, "be around the house, stay out of her way, and dont talk to her unless she talks to me first." it basically seems like the silent treatment...but really, your giving her a dose of her own medicine...but in a different manner. and nice (NOT MEAN) clean, safe, manner. so then she has time to think about how she's been treating you and/or anyone else.. You just have to be really patient with her, and i know that you have been, you just need to stay patient a little while longer. things will fall into place. ^_^ if you have anymore questions about this..dont be afraid to ask. :)

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