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this boy: URGENT
this story might be a little long sorry....
anyway alright so this guy named steve. wow amazing..hott..perfect. you know the routine. anyway i have been in love with him. it was last year. for about a year and a half. so i know how to deal with love now. me and him have been through it all. we've always had a spark. we have even made out 6 times when we WEREN'T going out. don't think i'm a slut though. we like eachother. but he also likes this perfect girl cheerleader named brooklyn. he always has liked her since the 6th grade. he's always liked her more then me. it sucks but yea i've learned to deal.
well recently we got in this huge fight about nothing and he blocked me online. and i thought he would just like brooklyn now. (even though she hates steve and would never ever go out with him). and i have been so mean with him and to him because im disgusted with him and i just couldn't deal with it anymore. so then i find out he likes me. and it freaks me out because i have been the meanest person in the world to him. and i wasn't even supposed to find out. he sent me this thing that's like a trick where it's supposed to tell you whats you future with a girl and you have to type in all the girls names that you like and then it actualy sends to the person..which was me and he typed my name first then brooklyns. so wow who's confused now. me. and i have always loved him but i just didnt want to show it. i do though but he always thinks he can do things with me and i dont want it to be that way. but this may also be my only chance with him should i play hard to get or just go after him like i have for the past 2 and a half years?
and if i should play hard to get..any tips?
thankss sooo much
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he's mainly playing hard to get with you, so maybe its your turn to do the same back to him. does he know that, that cheerleader girl doesnt like him like that? if he does, then that sucks for him. what REALLY sux is that he doesnt realize that he has a great girl in front of him right now. you basically said that you've loved him for almost 2 yrs now and he can only push you so far, with you going after him and such. he better stop pushing, becuz one day your gonna stop liking him and then he's gonna try to go after you and try to get you to like him again... SO, either play his game, or confront him.
true story..its happened to me before.
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Tell him how you feel. If it's too hard to say it in person, write him a note or message or IM. Start off by apologizing for being a jerk. Tell him that you've had feelings for him for a while now, and you want to know if he feels the same way. Tell him that if he doesn't feel the same way, you still want to be friends... but that you can't make out or "do things" with him anymore if you're only going to be friends.
And then see what he says!
If he does like you, he'll let you know. If he just wants to be friends, well, you'll have to accept that. But you never know, his feelings could change in the future. If he still can't decide between you and the cheerleader chick, well, you'll have to just give him time to make up his mind. But don't be tempted to "do things" with him... make sure he knows that if he wants you, it has to be all or nothing.
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Playing hard to get doesn't always work. If you do that, you might actually lose him and he might move on for good. You both like each other and neather one of you wants to admit it and tell one another. You need to go after him or you might be missing out on a great guy. Talk to him about it and even though it might be a little akward, you need to bring it up. Apologize for being rude to him and explain why you have been acting that way. If the only thing that he wants from you is to hook up, he's not worth it but it seems like he likes you more than that. So talk to him and try to persue things from there and see how things go. Good luck with everything.
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