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he doesnt seem to care anymore


Question Posted Tuesday June 26 2007, 9:34 am

14/f and my boyfriend is 16/f
we'll be together for 2 months on the 5 or july

lately he doesnt seem to care too much. like sometimes hell be the sweetst guy in the world, but other times hell be a complete asshole.
i really just want him to show that he cares about me more.
ive talked to him about it and he says he'll try, and he'll do really good for like a week, then he starts being a dick again, but randomly is really sweet like once a week.
what should i do?


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LowTeaToe answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 1:16 pm:
honestly...if he keeps treating you like this then he's not worth your time.
its clear that you've tried to talk to him about it, but he keeps going on with treating you like dirt. that's wrong.

if your the type of girl who likes (good, clean) revenge, then this is how you do it: reverse the tables, give him a dose of his own medicine.

its not really revenge...its YOU trying to prove a point to HIM.









i didnt mean that he abused you or antying...i was trying to say that he was treating you unfairly (emotional wise).

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notanotherdummblond answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 1:12 pm:
you get what you give do some thing for him and then maybe karma might turn around and give you some thing in return (ps. DON'T seem desprate when you do it!)

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x0advice4y3w answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 11:43 am:
Same thing is going on with me, although we're almost at 1 year on July 2nd. He can sometimes be the nicest person in the world, but then completly changes. I hate it!

He'll just randomly just start acting like he doesn't care, and says rude things, and we fight alot.

To be honest, I don't know exactly what to do, because I've tried talking to him and such, and your right it works for a week or something and then everything starts again. I guess we should just try talking to them again, let them know how badly it is hurting us, and we can put up with it much longer. That's the best thing I can think of right now. Or, me and my boyfriend sometimes break-up, get back together within 1 day kinda thing. Maybe you can dump him, not talk to him for like 4 hours, and be like "things need to change." after he's like begging for you back. It's worth a try. Good luck.

Write in my inbox what you did - and if it worked. (:

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