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so i'm a little clueless on some things...
well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering...
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1.it depeds on how you look at it to somepeople its good and its healthy and to the bible its bad,it does get on something thats if you dont have anything to wipe it up with
2.orgasms are to make you feel good because they dont know how the feel
3.popping the cherry is losing your virginity no and its suppose to feel good to girls
4.it probably could if its your first time but if ou keep doing it it will feel good
5.they are very sensitive to heat and how hard and fast you have sex they are thin thin rubber and no condoms dont work everytime you have sex so you better be careful if its your first time
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1) its not bad or good.. it just means they had an orgasm.
2) um its kinda hard to explain but it basically just feels really good and it means that someone did something to you or you did something to yourself that felt really good
3) "popping your cherry" is when a skin in your vagina breaks.. its really called your hymen. people say that because it happens a lot during the girls first time having sex. but a lot of times girls pop it with a tampon or by doing sports. it sometimes hurts and sometimes doesnt. it really just depends on the girl.
4) sometimes it hurts the first time/ first few times. just take it slow and eventually it wont hurt anymore. just have the guy wear a condom and take birth control and theres basically no chance youre gonna get pregnant.
5)condoms work really well. theres a really really small chance that you will get pregnant. yeah they would work everytime. as long as they dont break.
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1) Ejaculation is for both guys and girls. When a male is sexually stimulated down there (by receiving head,handjob,sex) then he eventually ejaculates. Girls cum also after stimulation as well. It isnt bad at all..it is perfectly natural and shows that they got so stimulated! I dont think its gross at all..but some people do. Its all a matter of opinion. It is messy..it will stain clothes, and it has a certain taste to it.
2) an orgasm is something ((amazing)) that happens during sexual activity. (masturbating,sex,etc.) for a girl..her heart beats fast,things down there feel really good (lol) and her muscles in her vagina contract. It is a very unique experience. (you'll know when you have one) People are always asking about them because they want to reach orgasm during secual activity. People want to know tips on how to reach orgasm, etc.
3) When a girl has sex for the first time, her cherry gets popped. The cherr y is really the hymen, which is a piece of skin that stretches and covers part of the vaginal hole. When a guy inserts his penis in her vagina, the piece of skin breaks. It is 100% normal and natural. It happens with every girl the first time they have sex (some girls cherries pop during activities like gymnastics or horseback riding) The pain varies from girl to girl. A very good friend of mine told me that yes it hurt a little her first time..but once the cherry was popped, 10 seconds later it felt good.
4) dont be afraid of sex. when you are married and have sex for the first time, im sure your husband will take it very slow. he will be gentle. as for the pregnancy thing..yes there is always a chance but condoms are extremely effective (not exactly sure on the numbers but i think its over 90?) if someone else wants to correct me please do. You can get birth control which is even more effective..and if you decide you never ever want to get pregnant, you can have an operation done to tie your tubes. this will prevent pregnancy. there is nothhhing to bee afraid of. once you are married with the right guy you will definately be ready :)
condoms are very effective but liek i said, there is always a chance. they could break..but if that happens you can always get the morning after pill.
-i hope i helped?
-melissa-
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1) For males ejaculation is when they release semen. It's a good thing as it generally happens after/during an orgasm and needs to happen in order for sperm to meet the egg during intercourse to lead to conception. The only time it's bad is if you're having sex without protection as you can get pregnant.
In females they don't ejaculate like males but rather release vaginal secretions and lubrication. They can however have G-Spot orgasms which are very elusive (only happens if it's hit during sex, fingering, masturbation) and she can squirt or release fluid that can be up to 1 litre in some instances.
Obviously, it feels good for both sexes and yes it can get on things and be messy especially in the last instance.
SEE THIS ARTICLE ABOUT FEMALE EJACULATION [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
2) Well for a female and for a male an orgasm is where your pubic region and other muscles in your body tighten up during sex, fingering, masturbation and release in pleasurable little ripples. See above for G-Spot orgasm.
People typically ask about them if they are inexperienced with sex, fingering masturbation or to confirm their suspicions that
they had one or to gain a sense of why they never have had one.
3) Ive been answering this one a lot. Your Hhmen also known as the cherry doesn't pop. It stretches and in some cases tears because of sex, fingering, masturbation or usually more often than not tampon usage. Read this article for more as it explains it eloquently and gives a medical diagram of it.
It can hurt but some people don't even notice it stretched. It can also be accompanied with spots of blood in one's underwear when it has occured. The hymen is a mucous membrane that partially covers and protects the vaginal opening. SEE THIS LINK : [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
4) make sure you have sex with someone you love and trust deeply if not waiting for marraige. Does it hurt? It can for girls the first time. The way to help make it so it doesn't is to make sure the girl is properly lubricated so insertion, penetrate go smoothly and there's no friction or pain from thrusting.
5) I'm not sure the percentage on condoms but they will protect you well from STDS and pregnancy if used correctly. Be sure to read the directions. You should also have a backup birthcontrol method to go along with condoms as their not 100% fool proof.
Instead of birthcontrol pills that must be taken daily and not missed at the exact same time I recommend looking into NuVa Ring which is a birthcontrol ring that goes into the vagina. Try a Google search for info on that.
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1. Ejaculation or "cumming" is good. For the guys it means that they've reached their maximum pleasure & they have "gotten off" as some people call it. (Without condoms, this is the spirm to fertalize the woman's egg to make babys). For girls, you don't have to ejaculate to reach maximum pleasure, in most cases you usually ejaculate or "cum" many times before your maximum pleasure has been reached. Another reason girls ejaculate is for lubrication. Sometimes, the girl & guy are both "dry" & there is friction between the vagina & the penis which can cause irritation after sex.
2. Orgasims are when the girl or guy (which ever one is having the orgasim) has reached their maximum pleasure in sex. It's an outrageous feeling during sex that everyone goes for when they are being intimate. What usually happens during an orgasim is some muscles contract (muscle spasms) you get "wet" (cumming) & you sometimes get dizzy. A great feeling goes through your legs, back, & neck. It varies from person to person.
3. I don't know mush about "popping the cherry" but I'll give you what I do know. Popping the cherry is when the skin inside a girl's vagina is ripped during their first time of having sex. The girl bleeds when this happens & unfortunally it does hurt. For me, I had my cherry popped the second time my boyfriend & I ever had sex, but for most people, it's the first time.
4. As I said before in #3 it does hurt the first couple times you do it, but after the vagina gets used to it, it feels great. ;) The only thing you need to really worry about are STDs. & before you're married you & your partner should get tested to prevent the spreading. Condoms prevent STDs but just as anything, they are never 100% accurate. & if you're worried about getting pregnant, get on the pill & use a condom. That will lessen your chances of getting pregnant if you use two sources of protection. & some people even use the "before & after pill". You take these before & after sex. It does somethign to the woman's egg & prevents you from getting pregnant. However, I wouldn't only use this method. People usually don't use this pill unless they are afraid that their other way of protection has failed.
5. The guy puts the condom (a rubber slip) over his penis & when he ejaculates or "cums" it goes in the condom rather than into the woman. & causes her to not get pregnant. Condoms are never 100% accurate with keeping people from getting pregnant. But they are pretty accurate. But, they can rip or fail if the expiration date has exceeded.
Hope I have helped. :)
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1.- Ejaculation isn't really good/bad. When a boy ejaculates, that's when he's had an orgasm (refer to next number lol). Girls do it ocassionaly, but not every time they orgasm. Yes, it can get on things. A girl gets pregnant from a boy ejaculating in her. Ejactulation can also get on basically anything. Ex. other body parts, the bed, the couch, clothes, etc. haha
2.- Orgasm are basically when you're messing around/masturbating, the release of sexual tension. They provide sexual pleasure and they feel good. People probably ask about them all the time because they like the feeling of them.
3.- Popping your cherry is the breaking of the hymen. It's a thin layer of "skin" that's I think in the vagina. It's not bad that you break it, because every girl does it at one point or another. Sometime you don't even know when you break it. You can break it while you're running, biking, using a tampon, or engaging in sexual activities. Just because you popped your cherry doesn't label you as a slut. It doesn't have to be related to anything sexual at all. I don't even know when I broke mine but I know that it's broken because I use tampons. So personally, it didn't hurt for me.
4.- Even if there is a form of birth control, there's always the tiny tiny percent chance of pregnancy. Condoms guarentee to work 99.9% of the time, because sometimes people don't use them correctly or they break/slip off, and companies don't want to be held accountable for guaranteeing no risks of pregnancy. Same with birth control and other contraceptives. If you're afraid to have sex, that means that you're not quite ready. There's a lot of things to watch out for, such as pregnancy and STDs. You just have to be careful. Yes, it can hurt for some girls, and for other girls no. It really depends & varies from person to person.
5.- Condoms work 99.9% of the time, if used correctly. If you use them correctly, then they should work well.
Hope I helped. :)
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don't worry i used to be clueless too.
1. ejaculation occurs when a guy or girl orgasms. some people may call it gross, i don't however. yes it can get on things if you're giving head or a hand job. during sex it will either go inside of you or the condom. ejaculation fluid is usually clear maybe a little white-is.
2. orgasms are the physical and emotional sensations experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ as the dictionary puts it.
3. "popping the cherry" is a silly term for when a girl loses her virginity. there's a myth that states when a girl has sex for the first time she bleeds. that isn't necessarily true unless the guy's penis tears the hymen. but even if that happens, it isn't a lot of blood.
4. there's nothing to be afraid of. sex for the first time can hurt girls, but if the person your with cares enough about you, they'll take it slow and be careful. yes you can get pregnant if you don't use protection. but don't worry, you'll be fine.
5. condoms are about 95% effective. no they will not work every time you have sex. condoms can break sometimes. so i don't recommend only relying on them. if you don't want to get pregnant, get on birth control.
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[1]Ejaculation during unprotected sex = bad for the guy, good for the girl. Ejaculation during protected sex = good for both. Ejactulation during masturbation = good for both.
[2]Orgasms release tension & people have probably never experienced one & they're probably just curious. Same reasons why other people ask questions.
[3]Popping your cherry is just breaking your hymen. No, it's not bad & it doesn't hurt. Sometimes you don't feel it because you can break it a ton of ways [sports, activities] other than sex.
[4]People are lying to you. It hurts for some & doesn't for others, that's true. If you're one who's prone to pain, try to do some foreplay first before you get into it because then the sex won't hurt as much & the pain will be eased. The only way to get pregnant during sex is the condom breaking, or not wearing one at all. No, there's not. Just make sure your boyfriend goes slow when you guys have sex because since you're both virgins it might hurt a bit.
[5]Condoms have about a 98% chance of working if used correctly. So, they're pretty effective & yes, use them everytime you have sex. Other than condoms, get on birth control. It's double the protection & can save you just in case the condom breaks.
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1: ejaculation isn't bad, it's just the name for when semen comes out of a penis. there is just a point when you are having sex that the man reaches a point where he ejaculates inside of you, or inside the condom. women can ejaculate but it is much less often and it doesn't really matter...don't worry about it. when you have sex there will be discharge in your vagina that acts as a lubricant, but that is different than ejaculating
2: there are many nerve endings in male and female genitals, that is what makes sex so pleasurable. an orgasm is just when someone reaches a point where they are going to "explode". it is just a brief feeling of extreme pleasure that fills your body, which in movies is when women moan and such :)
3: women and girls have a very thin layer of skin that covers a small part of the vaginal opening. when you have sex for the first time, this skin breaks. popping the cherry is just a term used when a girl loses her virginity. It hurts a little, but nothing to be afraid about, it may bleed, but not too much.
4:sex hurts a little at first, but once you do it you will begin to like it. sex is meant to be a pleasurable experience and it is nothing to be afraid of! don't worry about the pain, it is very easy to handle, you may not even feel pain at all! condoms can break or not work, and birth control may not always work. that is why not having sex is the only way to be sure you won't get pregnant. However, once your married you will have sex ofcourse and when you do just talk to your husband first about what your plan would be if you got pregnant by accident. keep using some form of birth control and you will be fine.
5: 99% of the time, there is always a chance it won't work, but usually it does
hope that helped!
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