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abusive dad
I'm just really scared right now. My dad has
just got finished with hitting me over and
over again and he took a plastic hanger and
just keep whacking me with it on my toes. And
that kills! I kept trying to run away but I
was too in shock to move out of his reach and
my sister doesn't think anything of it because
he does it a lot so she thinks that's what your
supposed to do. After watching my dad hit me,
my sister frequently elbows me or punches me in
the stomach if we play hide and seek and she loses.
My parents buy my sister everything and play games
with her and treat her well but they treat me
like I'm a piece of crap. They call me "a piece
of shit" and "a waste of space." And they threatened
to send me to a shrink and never let me see my
family again. My relatives gossip to everyone if
I tell them my dad hit me and they don't believe
me so I can't tell them. I will NEVER tell my
friends because even though I love them dearly,
I couldn't trust them with that. Also, I hate my
guidance counselor and I just can't tell him. After
my dad hit me I had my hand on the phone and I
was just about to dial 911 but I got scared and
stopped. I did it once before but my parents
denied everything. Once I was on vacation and
my parents were verbally abusing me and this
lady heard and called the police but my parents
denied everything. Sometimes I give my parents
a reason to hit me like if we are in a fight
but I don't know I'm really scared to come out
of my room right now. I need all the advice I
can get and if you believe I should call a number
and tell them what's going on who do I call?
I want a professional. But if they take me away
from the parents, where will I live? I really
don't want to live with strangers in an
orphanage! Would they put me at a friend's
or relatives house? I'm just really scared and
I don't really want to leave my parents. But they
can be abusive and I don't know how much longer
I can put up with it! Help!!!!!
Sorry this is soo long.
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I don't know if you need anymore advice , but my heart breaks for you so badly and i just want to help you out. You need to contact the police when the abuse happens. Like right away. Dont be scared to its going to be for the best. I promise you.No person should ever go through physical or verbal abuse! You are not a waste of life. DOnt let them get to you. God created you and made you the way you are. The truth is , they might take you away from your parents, but isnt it better to be away from that? DO you have any really close friends. You could ask a friend if you could stay at there house for a while, because your having family problems. I dont know, but do something. Tell someone right away! But always remember, you are someone specail and dont deserve this!
IF you ever need anything let me knoww because im here!:]
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my friend was abused physically and with drugs. her mom went to jail for doing all that to her when she was 4-10. record it with a camera it could be faceing or not atleast get sound. dont hold back. have windows and doors open if a parent is coming at you scream as loud as you can and bring a cell and run dont stop running. or if you dont run out just keep screaming someone will hear i bet one of your neighbors think or know already. something about all the abuse. or runaway one calmer day and DO NOT STOP when you didnt fight yet so they wont suspect. the police will understand the runaway so just keep running till you get to somewhere you know. someones house or a resturant anywhere far. dont hold back go crazy you have a right. they could kill you if they ever do anything real bad. call 911 with proof since your parents deny you need proof. print this page like someone said and record you just downstairs and your parents doing something to you anything. call the police in your room or outside tell them your parents are abusive and they denied last time the police got called tell them you have proof and tell them you need someone to come down NOW. dont sound mean but its your life on the line. get the police involved. your parents should go to jail for abuse and lieing to the police last time. ask if you could stay with a friend not a orphanage or relative if you do not want to then dont. call 911 its your life on the line get proof first even if it means getting hurt again you neeeeeed proof then get the police involved. get proof and call now
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You should first print out this entire page as good prove, and send it to your guidance counselor, and then to all your good relatives. Don't send it to any child support agencies they will take you away 4rm your parents and in an orphange you go, then I know its hard for you but you need to tel your friends and make them promise not to tell, and last pray, becuase even god knows nobody deserves what you have to put through even woth your sister the person whop should be in trouble wit you is also putting you down. I am punished by my parentsin some form but not abused. If you know that they are beating for no reason at all you need to tell someone.
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and post your story for professional help, Tyra Banks is a loving,caring celebrity, who knows professionals. I'll pray for you. And I wish u the best. How old are you by the way?
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Tell your guidance counselor.
If your parents threaten to send you to a shrink, accept it and tell the shrink what they're doing.
Call child services, see to it that you get sent to a better home and your parents get locked up.
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Oh my god, I AM SO SORRY, you must be going through a terrible time,and what i suggest you do is not put up with it for any longer. Your parents are abusing and neglecting you, and this a crime in the uk. You seriousley need to go to social sevices, or the police, and if they deny it you should show them the marks what they have done to you , and you should not put up with it any longer. Nobody deserves that abuse what you parents are giving you. And YOU are not a waste of space! Do not listen to the abuse your parents give you, please do that what i told you to do, because you parents are committing a crime, and they should be punished for this.
i really really hope i helped xx
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Just because you fight, does not give your parents the right to abuse you, physically or emotionally.
You just need to get out of the house. You should keep a tape recorder or a video camera in your room or wherever they do this and tape it for evidence. When you tell someone, they will be certain you are telling the truth because they will see it themselves.
ducttape_n_roses gave the site safeyouth.org. You should report it there and they will place you with relative or family friend that is considered safe.
I hope you get out soon and if you need any more help, you can always contact me.
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You should really call the police, if your too scared of caling them, then talk to your counselor. He may be weird, but he can do something. Try calling the social services in your city, they'll be able to help you. They would probably get your paretns to straighten up, [therapy], or they would send you to live with a relative. It's possible they may send you to an orphanage, but that's very unlikely.
Hope it all works out :]
xoxo
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You need to find out the number for the department of social services in your city. If you would like me to help you through the process.. Email me at shianne@tmail.com. This isn't your fault and you have a right to be happy and live your life. Do you have a relative who is drug free who is willing to take you in? You tell the department that and they will do the best they can to put you there. I need to know more about the situation. Like I said email me if you would like further help
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www.safeyouth.org
Go there--you should be able contact them for free or send them an e-mail. If they take you out of the house, they'll most likely place you in a relative's house. You should definitely get out of there as soon as possible and none of this is your fault, okay? Hope everything works out =)
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