I asked a question a long time ago about sex and I kept it clean, but it was deleted because "We aren't in the sex ideas business here" when I didn't even ask for ideas about sex! All I see on here is 13 year olds asking how to have sex, how to give a better blow job, and how to talk your boyfriend/girlfriend in to having sex along with everything else and they get atleast 5 answers a piece and MY question gets deleted when NOTHING was wrong with it! What's up with that?
Though your question itself was not sexually explicit, it did ask for explicit advice on how to turn a guy on, and as such was deemed inappropriate by one of the admins and deleted.
You rightly point out that some questions which are more explicit than yours get onto the site and recieve answers. That's because we have a team of admins who approve questions, and we all have slightly different ideas of where the line is, so some questions that I approve others might not, and vice-versa. It's not a perfect system, but no human system is.
We try to avoid having anything sexually explicit on the site, because we have a relatively young userbase. We allow sex questions - and indeed, we get a lot of them, but we try to keep the focus appropriate towards a younger audience. I intepret that to mean we allow questions about (for example), biological aspects of sex such as pregnancy and STD risks and emotional aspects of sex, like whether people are ready, but not technical things like how to do x position or how to turn somebody on or learn a new trick, because whilst these questions could be answered in a non-explicit way, they could very easily generate explicit and inappropriate material in answers, and that isn't what we want from the site.
I'm not going to approve this question to the main page, because I don't think it's asking for advice. But I hope I answered your question and you can understand more why your quesiton wasn't approved. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
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