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Am I 2nd place?
There is this guy named Evan, and he has a gf. But im head over heels over him. Evan promised me that when he brakes up with is gf he'll go out with me. But that makes me feel like im 2nd place,like im less important. I dont know wht to do, i really like him. Please give me some advice.
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Sweetie, just tell him how you feel. It will be scary at first, BUT it's worth it.
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Um, you sound like you're expecting to be 1st place in his life---he has a girlfriend. Get the point? You can't be 1st place--he has a girlfriend and that means he's off limits. Cool off from him and go meet new guys
Also, if he says he's going to go out with you after he dumps his gf, he's not that good of a guy. Plus, he's going to be on rebound and it's not going to work out. Don't let this guy hurt you and move on because there are great guys out there.
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Why are you even bothering with this guy?
He'll go out with you WHEN he dumps his girlfriend?
Sure, u lyk him..but do u really wanna be in a relatiponship where the guy doesn't like like you back...its a two way street honey..my advice is too steer clear of him..walk with your head held up high and tell him you ain't no second best girl..
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i'm sorry to tell you this, but any guy that would do that is not worth your time. so basically he is telling you that he likes you, even though he has a girlfriend. think about what he's doing to his girlfriend. what makes you think he might not do that same thing to you? he's going behind her back, and that's not right.
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sweetie, it seems like he's REALLY not worth it. i know you like him a lot, but ANY guy that says "when i break up with her, i'll go out with you" is SO not worth it. if he really liked you, he would have dumped her the minute he found out you liked him. like the girl under me said, you're just his rebound girl in case something goes wrong with his girlfriend.
he's not worth it - i think you should start looking at other guys now. i'm not saying, "move on" because obviously that's not possible at the moment because you like him so much, but i'd start keeping my space with him if he said something like that to you. it's the honest truth.
if he breaks up with her like, tomorrow, then i'd give him a chance but it doesn't seem that way. what i'm saying is, if he REALLY liked you, he would have dumped her. if he doesn't like you, then how could he say he'll go out with you when he breaks up with her? his mind isn't a robot's. he can't just say that he'll start liking you & go out with you the second he breaks up with her. so what he said is very, very weird... & also. if he said he'll go out with you after he breaks up with her, there's like, a 97% chance he won't like you as a TRUE boyfriend should. you're taking a big risk, love, if you go out with him after he breaks up with her.
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hun your just his rebound girl. just move on and forget about him because any guy who would tell another girl that is not worth it, you can do better!
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