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im pretty but
okay i know that im pretty. but it only really shows when i get back from school (like for some weird reason i look best after school then when i did in it) and in the summer. i have wavy blonde hair and blue eyes and im skinny. i have a rash thing tho on my arm that i so need to get rid of. (any ideas?) i work out so im not fat or anything but like i never had a boyfriend and im like 13. i know people havent had bfs who are older then me but still... and like i desperatly need a bf becausee people at school think im a lez. which.. im so not. im really shy at school so maybe thats why i cant get a bf? out side of school im really loud and stuff && guys lovee me from other towns and ask me out all the time (i turn them down) but in school. no. i am so quite. and im popular like with people in other schools but.. not mine. so. yeah. i wanna be popular at mine =[
adviceee!
&& you know what is they gayesttt? like girls at my school can be like ugly. but get a bf. im the what the freakkk. and like.i really picky tho. so thats probably a reason. ha
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Maybe you need to worry less about your "prettiness" and getting a boyfriend and more about growing up a little bit. I know you're only 13, but you're quite immature judging by this question. Maybe if you weren't so desperate to be pretty and get a boyfriend, you'd actually get one. Guys don't like girls that are full of themselves...it's just annoying.
And if you're friends think you're a lesbian because you've never had a boyfriend, they need to grow up as well. That's just plain stupid.
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First of all, you're 13! There is no reason you need to be stressing out about not having a boyfriend. Just think about it this way: Would you rather have your first boyfriend be any old guy when you were 13, just because you were desperate, or wait a couple years and find an amazing guy instead? Who wants to look back and think, "Yeah, I definitly gave into peer pressure. I wish I would have searched a little harder for a great first boyfriend." You can only have one first BF and one first kiss, so think about how you want those memories to be!
I'm sure you're just as pretty and sweet as you say you are, so let the guys come to you! (Even if it takes a little longer.) My friend used to tell me this all the time back in middle school, because trust me, I was right in your shoes! Girls are like apples on an apple tree. All the rotten ones fall to the ground first, and all the lazy guys go for those ones first because they're easy to reach and don't take much work. But the real guys, the extra special ones, will take the time to climb to the top of the tree and find the best apples! It may sound cheesy now, but think about it! Don't rush these things, and never ever let anyone make you feel inadequate for not having a boyfriend at THIRTEEN! You've got so many more years ahead of you girl. :)
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Let me tell you this.... you do not need a BOY to justify your beauty and screw the people at school. they are sayin all that crap to make themselves feel like more of a person and because they have nothing else better to do. You need to let them know to keep your name out their mouth cuz you dont know where its been!
You don't need to be with somebody just because. It's nice to have friends but at your age, boyfriends are just trouble and they start to distract you from things that you should be paying attention to. Trust me! I've been there so I know, okay? I'm sure that you're tired of hearing what you're too young to do. But you're only 13. Try and focus on other things. It's cool to have guys as friends but try to keep it just that. If you are with somebody, it may not last too long because boys your age don't wanna be tied down to one person... they are at that age where they are just finding out what goes where and how to put it there... ya feel me?! I'm not saying go and be with somebody older. But you gotta find things in yourself and in your life that you love and love to do to take up your time till you grow alittle bit more and have a reason to want.. not need... a boyfriend. Good luck sweetie! :)
P.S. Popularity isn't everything. It's better to be liked because you're smart, nice to talk to, and just a good person. Then because your boobs are huge, you're easy, or because you do what you have to do to get liked... think about it.
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Im not sure about your rash, but being pretty isnt all it takes to get a bf. Having a great personality plays a HUGE part. If your shy, guys probably think your not interested or don't notice you. You don't need a bf until your ready and found a guy you liked, and you dont have to get one to convince people you arent a lesbian. So be a bit more outgoing, and be flirty with guys. A little goes a long way.
Good luck!
-Abby
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I think that way sometimes too. If I get home I would like my hair way better then I did at school or something like that but it's totally normal. I think it's just your opinion and the way you think. If you have a rash and don't know how to treat it, go to the doctor. They could give you a cream or something so you can get rid of it. Being shy could be the reason that you don't have a boyfriend. Start talking to people more and guys especially. Be flirty and fun and just get to know some guys. Start of as friends and so on. Just be yourself and I'm sure guys will like you. If you want to be popular at your school, don't try so hard. People can see right through that. All you need to do is start talking to more people. Don't be afraid that they'll think bad of you or something but just be outgoing and people will like you for your personality. Those "ugly" girls obviously have something that people like about them. Not all guys are shallow and only care about looks. They probablly have a really nice personality and that's the reason that they have boyfriends.
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Dude. don't worry about it. Honestly having a boyfriend isnt as great as its cracked up to be. and if your crumby classmates think you're a lesbian, So what. You know you're not, and your friend's know it too.
and If all you want is to be popular. Your priorities are ALL wrong. The fat ugly girls with boyfriends probably have boyfriends because they're looking at PERSONALITY, not looks.
Believe it or not, Guys like girls who can think for themselves, and aren't superficial, and don't waste they're lives spending Mommy and Daddy's money, and crying over little things like not getting a boyfriend.
and By the way, don't say "like" so much. its a turn-off for most guys.
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