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Yeah. I kind of need help!! Me and my best friend r having a huge fight right now and I don't know what to do. We both said things we didnt mean. What should I do? Im so confused? ;0; Please help me. I already apologized but she wont take my apology!!
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I peronsally think that you should confront her about the whole thing and apologize, but I know that doesn't always work. So, I think you should call her, and leave her a voicemail telling her you're sorry, and explain to her everything was just a big misunderstanding. Or, write her a letter. (Only if she won't shred it to pieces)Good luck!
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Well, if she doesn't accept your apology, I'd just leave her alone for a while. Give her sometime & she'll eventually come around. If not, then what kind of friend is she?
♥T!NA
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Get 6 flash cards and in the front of one card write the letter s on the next o and continue until you wrote the word sorry!In the back write diffrent perrsonal message or poem on each card.then leave one card on her desk in the beginning of each period.At the end of school wait for her to come out and ask her if she forgives you
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Well, did she mean what she said or not? Because either way, you hurt each other's feelings and you stepped forward to apologize yet she refuses to accept it when she herself did the same thing.
She's being a little immature right now and wanting this to carry onto more drama. Just leave her alone for a while. IF she doesn't come around in eh...2 weeks or so, then you go to her again and ask if she's cool with what happened or not. If she ignores you and all that jazz, just forget about it because it's just going to lead to further complications.
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Well, you can't force her to accept your apology. What would probably be the best thing to do right now, is to just give her some space, but not THAT much space. Because if you keep pushing her and bothering about it, she'll only get more mad.
Just tell her you understand why she won't accept your apology and everything, but you hope in time she will. And ask her if she'd like to talk about it, and try and work things out. If she says no, then tell her you understand, and you hope later in time she'll want to talk it out. And if she ever is, you're there.
And just keep trying to keep in touch with her every now and then and let her know you're sorry and stuff. And show her that you miss her, and want things to return to the way they used to be. Over time, if she's not one to hold grudges, she'll realize how much you're sorry and how much you miss her, and she'll want to forgive you and return things back to normal.
I hope I helped.
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Don't keep pushing them, but don't just back off either. Just make sure that you make it well known to them that you want to work things out. A resolution cannot move forward until both are ready to put your guard down and talk it through.
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