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need a Counselor
13/f
okay well for a long time now (about 4-5 months) i have been telling my parents and my grandmother that i need like a counselor or something i used to have one before and my mom made me stop going because she didnt like the idea that someone was telling her she was wrong for some things. so what do i do if my parents wont help me and my grandmother wont either?
-thanks-
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Okay well you need to tell your mom that the conseling isnt about her its about you.She needs to understand that this is somthing that you want.Your parents and grandmother love you and i'm sure that they'll understand your probuly.
I hoped i helped.
-alex.
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Wait can you see a school counselor? If so I'm sure that would help.
<3Marissa xox
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Do you believe in the power of prayer ? if you do I advice you to take some quiet time and pray ; tell God how you feel, you can talk to him like a friend; and you do not have to use big words; pour out your heart and ask him to reveal his love for you; and after you do this watch how better you feel because during this process he is healing your heart through your tears and he is working to heal the broken places in your life .
God Bless You
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oh gee, that's tricky. you could see someone at school. I was in a similar situation and really all you can do is change your behavior, not theirs. a conselor telling them that they are wrong wont change anything for the better even though sometimes the parents do need to change. you can talk to another trusted adult...that's what helped me. if you want someone to talk to, leave me one in my inbox. <3
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Well if you need help, you need to go try to get it yourself. And something your mom needs to work on, is that her way isnt the only way. It sounds to me this is a verry very difficult situation you know? But explain to your mom that there are things in life your not going to agree with, and people arent going to like everything you say or she says. But remind her how much you need this, and how you'll feel better if you can get it.
<3
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I Guess you could always say how you are feeling suicidal and you need a counciler to help you get through it. Idk that could always backfire on you by them putting you into a mental institution... sooo once school starts don't be afraid to stop by your guidance counciler... they have always helped me with my problems and they are so understanding.
hope this helps!!!
if you ever need someone to talk to my screen name for aim is OH FAKE A SMiLE
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