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Trust
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Well me and my friends were having dinner the other night. Her mom called because she was going to pick us up. When her mom asked if there were guys there (there was) she said no. But her brother came in to get us and he saw them and then told her mom. Her mom didn't care there were guys there she just cared that my friend lied. So now my friend has lost her parents trust by lying and she really wants to get it back.
Are there any ways you guys would suggest getting her parents trust back? Or if anyones been in this same type of situation maybe? Thanks.
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She should apologize and stick to her word.
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Tell her to the truth in every single situation from now on. Even if her motivation in telling the truth isn't always "oh it's because I want to be a better person", tell her to tell herself it's because she don't want to get bitten in the ass later.
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Take it from the person who has lost her parent's trust several times over: it takes a while to gain it back. from now on, have her tell her mom the details about her plans... all the people going, no exceptions. if her mom didnt care, why did she lie in the first place? honesty is important and in the meantime she can think about how important it is to not tell a lie. maybe she can have the guys over to her house while her parents dont trust her so she can show them she knows how to behave. <3
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it depends on her parents....i lost trust with my parents and...never got it back...its been 7months..but i also have not been doing so well in earning it back..so idk if she says shes sorry to her parents and asks for another chance and peomises she wont lie anymore maybe they'll give it to her..maybe not..and if they are being stubborn about not trusting her then maybe she could ask if there is a way she can get the trust back between them...
hope i helped a little..
-Rosemarie-
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Well its easy to lose trust but hard to gain it back. I mean I was just thinking about this, I had this best friend, and I thought she was amazing because she never lied to me and she was always honest. But once she left a lie on my answering machine and I knew it was a lie. So immediantly I was so hurt. And it was her fault, not mine at all. But thats not the point, the point is, getting trust back is hard work. You need to work at the relationship, and if she gets put in situations where she could lie, the easiest way out is to just tell the truth and not lie.
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