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Still Virgin/Prude
Hey,
Im 15, and I still have not had a boyfriend, or hooked up with a guy...
it never really bothered me before but lately it has been.
My best friend since 4th grade (who lives in Texas) (I live in Philly) has had alot more experience with guys than me.
It makes me kind-of jealous, and i dont want to be like...behind her if that makes sense?
alot of girls at my school just give in and do any guy that is willing to do them. There's not alot of people who are in an actually relationship.
I hate my school. All the guys are a-holes.
and i have confidence in myself too i model, im sweet, im funny...
im just really shy.
now im just babbling.
To get to the point I dont want to just hook up with some ass hole who doesnt care about me. But.. i dont want to be prude.
Thanks.
-Anna
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hi, im 15 and im having the same problems. there are too many a-holes in the world. all i have to tell you is that your not alone, there are many of us the same way. also, dont worrie about it, things will happen at the right time with the right guy. dont go searching for someone. let him find you. and trust me you will catch up with your freind soon.
hope i helped
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Your school sounds exactly like mine. And beleive it or not, a lot of people are in your same position. Its GREAT that you have confidence in yourself. That makes you def. more likable! If you don't like the guys at your school. Try meeting guys somewhere else..through a friend or at a party. Soon enough you'll know more guys and hopefully their sweet. And don't worry, your day will come!
Good Luck! :)
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I think its good that you havent hooked up w/ some random guy at your school, especially if their all "aholes" keep w/ your morals. The right guy will come :] and then you can experience w/ whatever you havent done. But i can see how you wouldnt want to not do anything at all, so in the mean time if i were you try meeting guys at other schools. I'm sure you'll find at least one guy & then you can actually have a relationship w/ him ♥ Good luck!
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You don't want to hook up with some asshole? Then DON'T! It doesn't make you a prude--it makes you SMART. You feel a little insecure right now, and that's normal, because you're judging yourself based on the other girls. Don't. This is going to sound awful, but someday you are going to have a career and a loving relationship, and many of these other girls are going to be living in a trailer with five kids and atleast one STD. And let me tell you something--I'm 18. I've been out with one guy, and it was hardly a relationship. I kissed him. It was my only kiss ever. This happened when I was sixteen. There is no law that says you have to have sex, or have any experience with guys, for that matter. Just enjoy your life for what it is. =)
-Lea
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alot of girls at this age are like that. but dont think you have to be rushed to do something. maybe just wait it out. see what happens. maybe you can find some other guys from other towns who are nice and sweet. im sure you'll have your turn just wait and see. goodluck!
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Hi, do you ever come across a guy or see a guy you like? Because if you do then just go up and talk. Otherwise you'll just have to wait until the right guy comes along. Daniel.
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dont worry.
i have the same problem.
all guys are dicks and are immature at my school.
but some how all my friends find boyfriends. i havent had one yet either. or my first kiss.
i guess you just have to wait till the RIGHT guy comes along.
:/
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When the right guy comes, he will come.
You cant compare yourself to everyone else, and where they are in life, like with boys.
You sound like a nice girl, with good intentions, and good standards, dont become desperate and settle for less than you deserve.
Eventually the right guy will come and you wont regret anything beacuse you didnt give yourself up to some random guy or something.
<3
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You're a good person. That's the difference between you and a lot of other people at your school. It's not prude to look for a real relationship, where people actually are emtionally attached instead of just screwing eachother.
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I think that's how just about all high schools are now. It's like teenagers have no morals anymore. You see 15-year-old girls sleeping around, sucking every guy they see and they wonder how they could ever get pregnant. And guys just want to stick their cocks in any hole around. You don't want to hook up with a random asshole and that's a good thing! More girls should have better morals and you know what? That doesn't make you the least bit prude; you just have respect for yourself.
If you're confident about yourself and know what you want, a guy will come around that'll show you that not all guy's are testosterone raging assholes.
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do you really want to do that.I bet you most of your friends are pregnant.you should find a nice guy who wants to take it slow even though its not alot a guys like that out here today but who say you have to date a guy in your school. you should date a nice guy near your neighbor hood.i hope i am helpfull to you
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