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I don't like my best friends bf
My best friend's boyfriend really gets on my nerves. He calls me names and he is really immature. Last time when my best friend and I hung out all she did was talked to him on the phone but she later on apologized for it. When we are on the phone together all she does is talk about him. Its really annoying me to the point where I can't take it. What do I do to handle this problem? I know I must talk to her but what should I say?
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Y don't you tell your friend that her boyfriend is being a real @$$whole? And ask her to talk to him. Then if she does that and he doesn't get his act together, then maybe you should cool off from your friend. I am not saying STOP being her friend, just say, "Hey, I'm gonna kick by myself 4 a little bit, but we're still friends, k? :D
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there is one thing that you have to remember...its her boyfriend and even though you dont like him, for whatever reason, she does. Just tell your friend that although you love to hang out with her, you would rather not hang out with her boyfriend, and when she wants to talk about him, not to call you. Hopefully she'll get the message.
good luck
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Say:
look sweetie i love you and everything but your boyfriend is an asshole. I don't wanna hang out with you while your with him. or talking to him.
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id give her some space, and not worry about being with her so much, truth of the matter is, shes got an ignorant boyfriend, and shes too naive at this point to see that. she'll come around. dont worry about it too much, hon. good luck.
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She's your best friend and she really seems to like this guy. Don't ruin this for her. I know he really gets on your nerves and all, but she likes talking about him to you because you'll listen and you're her best friend. Just talk to her about him and maybe she could talk to him about it. He needs to stop being immature and mean to you. If he doesn't stop, just ignore him. It might be hard but he knows what bothers you and he will keep doing it.
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