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best friend moving.
my best best best friend is moving to eather London or Dubai! im really upset and most days of the week i end up crying at night. theres absolutaly nothing i can do about it. its a definate and i only have one more month with her. who knew our 7 year friend ship would come to a end. im so upset. please help
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okay, so i know its gotta be hard with your friend moving to another country. i've had a BFF move before too, and it was really hard. i always wonder what it would be like if she hadnt moved from around the street. you`ll be able to visit eachother, and those moments will be precious.
remember, even though it may be hard for you, think about how much harder it is for her!!
the key is to KIT. [keep in touch]
letters
email
phone
visits
just keep in touch and i can GUARANTEE youu that things will work out and you wont regret anything. otherwise...
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I know what your going through.My best friend is also moving.I know its goona be hard for you but besides you have one month to spend with her, make it the most best month for before she moves.Do things with her and try to spend as much time with her.But when the time comes to her moving.Keep in touch with her.Write to her,IM her,or even talk to her on the phone.Next summer make plans for her to come over here,or you can save up money to go over to London or Dubai.But really try to make her last month here the best for her.I know it'll be hard but try you best every way you can.I hope this helped you alittle :)
::*Just another person*::
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You have to stay strong and positive. Be glad you had the 7 years. Who knows, maybe once every 6 months - a year. You can visit each other. And you can write each other, send each other postcards, e-mail, call. Just spend the month you have, with her. Maybe you two could make something together and once every 6 months send it back and fourth. It be a little game you two can have to help pass the time. Worth a try, right?
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Aww im sorry. I know how hard it is. My best friend moved about a year ago too. Your friend ship wont come to an end. My friend has been gone for a year and it seems like she never left. Just keep in touch. Try to vist maybe once a year. I know its hard but while she is here you have to be strong around her. It is just as hard for her and if she sees you crying and being upst she will too. Just dont worry. Atleast you had a great 7 years and great memories.
Jess<33
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i know how you feel, because a few years ago my best friend moved to Scotland. you can't really do anything about it, except to just do really fun stuff on your last month together.
since she's the one that's actually moving, she's probably as upset as you are, and probably really stressed from packing up all her stuff.
just stay positive and remember, you can always talk to her on the phone and e-mail, and you can go visit her on holidays.
hope you feel better ♥
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hey! aawww im sorry! :( i moved when i was younger and had to leave my best friend of 8 years. it sucked really bad, and i cried about it all the time because i felt like i will never get over the loss. it's perfectly normal to cry and let it all out. you are sad... you should be sad, and that is OK! crying will help, so don't be ashamed to do it. as far as what to do, you guys can call and email each other. post pictures online if you have digital cameras on a place like yahoo pictures so that you can each see how the other one is living and stuff. fill her in on everything and have her do the same. you guys will be friends forever... you are not losing a friend, you are just not going to see her as much! save up money and maybe go visit her for the whole summer in a couple of years! calling might be too expensive, so you should deffinitely get a calling card... or even better, each one of you should get SKYPE (at [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)). it's a free software that you download onto your computer and then "call" each other for free using the computer! all you need is a microphone and speakers so you can talk to each other... and if you have web cams, you can even see each other as you talk! all you would have to do is arrange a time when you can both talk, and one of you will "call" the other one using skype... it's easy and free!! it's normal to be sad, but don't worry eventually everything will be ok! just keep in touch and you guys will be friends forever... no matter where you live! :)
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the same situation happen to one of my freinds and the only thing u can do is try to keep in touch when she goes away. it seems hard at first but you will learn to get use to it im sure
-Adrianna
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I'm sorry to hear that. My friend almost moved too. But what you can do is write each other everyday, send emails, phone calls, pictures, to stay in touch.
I'm really sorry that I couldn't help you more than this.
-GD
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I'm so sorry! What a terrible thing to have happen!
I wish I could do something to help but what happens now is really down to you and your friend because you need to work to maintain the friendship.
Make sure that you can telephone each other from time to time when you really need to (I mean REALLY need to or your parents will hit the roof when they find the phone bill!).
Also, remember that the World-Wide Web is always there and failing that, there will ALWAYS be pen and paper! I can imagine it would be quite exciting having a pen-pal in a foreign country!
Just because you can't see her face to face now, it doesn't mean the friendship can no longer exist. She will still be your friend but also your pen-pal.
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My best friend moved, it was really hard for me. What we do is take picture (desposible camera) not digital!! and get the pictures develped once a month and write on the back of the pictures what's going on in them and write a cute little letter once a month we send them back and forth. i still call her everytime i have a problem and we talk on myspace and aim a lot. and i don't even wanna get started about my texting!
as for the pictures.. we take dumb ones..
pictures of us with friends.. maybe the really hot guy working at a cafe we ate at... just anything to make them feel like they're there with you.
i hope i helped.
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I understand that you must feel completely powerless in this situation, but depending on how old you are, maybe in a few years she can move back or you two can arrange to visit each other. Until then, there are plenty of ways to keep in touch- aim, email, myspace, phone calls, texts...hoefully you can work out a good system.
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