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My best friend spends WAY too much time with her bf and whenever I try to tell her she gets mad and calls me selfish. She does EVERYTHING with him now and I think she likes him more than me. What can I do?
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Hey, this exact thing happened to me, just explain to her that you respect her having a dedicated relationship with her boyfriend and everything lol, but you feel like your losing her as a friend and you dont want that to happen. If she gets mad at you then maybe try to suggest that all three of you hang out(as a group):) that way you can all three spend time together and no1 will get jealous or mad.
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Its okay...you are still her best friend. She isn't trying to replace you or anything. So don't feel left out, She is just in love. Give her some time... and she will be back to normal in a few weeks or so. Just ask her about it nicely so that she doesn't take it the wrong way like what she has been doing. Plan ahead with her and say "hey so do you wanna do stuff this weekend" or something like that. Find a good time...i mean she can't be doing stuff with him every moment of her life, can she? So you should be able to find some time to do something with her. If she can't ever do stuff with you, then just hang out with other people... just give her some time... it will all be better soon... i promise.
**BeLLe**
**BeLLe**
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No matter what happens with this boy, she will always be your best friend (remember, forever never ends). You are her BEST FRIEND and he is her BOY FRIEND. They do stuff together that you wouldn't do with her (kiss, hold hands, etc.) but at the same time, you two do stuff together that she would never do with him (gossip, paint your nails, do each other's hair). After all, if she didn't have you, she wouldn't have anyone to obsess about him to. Also, remember that one day, sooner or later, they will break up (most likely). She's going to need somebody to cry on their shoulder, and chances are she'll be crawling back to you. Let her, forgive her, give her another chance. I was/am going through this with my best friend so I know how it feels.
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i've heard about this a lot before =] boys come & go, but friends are forever, and sooner or later [maybe after the break up or sooner] she'll realize this. you've already tried talking to her which is a good thing, and when she gets mad make sure that what you say to her couldn't be taken offensively. you may not mean to offend her but you could be anyway .. instead, say that you just really miss spending time with each other and you think it's important to hang out. ask her to leave at least a night/day for you guys to hang out .. because when her heart gets broken, who's gonna be there? you. goodluck.
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well, my best friend and i just went through this. except i was the one who wasn't spending enough time with her.
set up a time for a girl's night, every week. one night a week schedule a couple of hours that you guys can do something together that way you can spend time together.
♥ melissa
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hey! well i'm sure she loves you too, but in a different way of course. she's your best friend, right??! so just call her up some time and ask her to like come over that friday/saturday and totally have a girls night or weekend or something. make sure its just you two or you and your other girl friends but no guys allowed this time. after you do this, she'll remember that even though she has fun with her boyfriend, she also has a blast with her friends, with you. just plan some times where things are like way back when--no boys allowed:P
xoxo helpachick
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Of course she likes him more than you. He's her boyfriend. That being said, if it bothers you that you guys don't get to hang out anymore, try and convince her to have a girls night out sometime soon.
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Well could you call her, e-mail or Im her explaining the situtaion just say hey ___ I just kinda feel that you spend not a much time with me than you did before you went out wiht ____. And I was just hopign we could do something soon together or just hang out more....
HOpe I helped!!
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