I'm in the eight grade and I'm a 14 year old female. Some boys think that i am pretty. But I haven't had my first kiss yet. I want my first kiss to be spectacular, something that I will remember forever.
I feel really left out because all of my friends have had their first kiss and more. I just want to know the ages of people when they got their first kiss and details (like where, how, etc.) it will make me feel better. Thank you in advance!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AllieBoo123 answered Saturday January 21 2006, 5:06 pm: I was 12 and in 7th grade. My boyfriend and I were walking and I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend being twelve. We ended up walking near my house and luckily nobody was home. But anyways we were at the side of my house and I told him I better go. Usually he would hug me good-bye. But instead he leaned in for a kiss and I almost fell over I was surprised. It wasn't the best kiss but I'l always remember it.
And don't worry about it being spectacular -your always going to remember your first kiss no matter what. If you want it to be soon then don't expect it to be great-- or you'll never get kissed if you expect too much.
Cj answered Monday January 16 2006, 6:19 pm: you will always remember it no matter what! done!
then, dont pressure about getting one now, we don't get them sometimes till were twenty. so just chill.
and don't do anything stupid.
SaturnMoonie answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:35 pm: I was 17 when I got my first kiss. Um it was weird, I wasn't expecting it. I was in my boyfriend's attic (we had been dating for about a week), we had just finished studying, and he was going to walk me home. Well I got up, and was putting my coat on, and talking to him about something, and he just came in front of me, and shoved his tounge down my throat! I mean, it was really unexpected, I was in the middle of a sentence, and I'm really shy so I could've died. After that I was running around thinking oh my god, oh my god that was such a horrible kiss, he's gonna think I'm a horrible kisser. Needless to say, I wasn't ready, but it's kinda funny lol. [ SaturnMoonie's advice column | Ask SaturnMoonie A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday January 16 2006, 1:20 pm: Whatever you do, don't rush your first kiss. A first kiss is a big occurrence in our lives; it's something you will (more than likely, for most) never forget. You're only 14. That may sound awful to you, but it's not bad at all. I know people who are in their 20's and have still never had their first kiss.
I rushed my first kiss. It was with my first boyfriend, and I was almost 13. I was just thrilled to finally have somebody, that I sort of ignored his flaws (which didn't seem as bad as they really were). We went to the park, our first time hanging out. The moment was right (and you will know when that is, trust me). We kissed. I sucked. I was basically licking all over his nose. He told me I sucked, and said I could only make it up to him by having sex with him. Lame, right? At 12, I said no. Then as a type of punishment, he hit me, a lot. Naturally, after that, the only calls I got from him were the ones saying he would kill my family. Then we never spoke again. Five years later, I'm seriously scarred. It may sound silly, but I can't bring myself to kiss anybody. I've tried many times with many different people. Nothing works, and burst into tears each and every time. Basically, the day of my first kiss was one of the worst days of my life. See how a bad experience may possibly come back to get you? You're 14, and you have nothing but time - don't forget that. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
uacctk14 answered Monday January 16 2006, 10:26 am: ok i havent gotten my first kiss and im 15 and in 9th grade i think when you find the right boy who is special to you then you will have the most memorable kiss...find the right person because youll remember them for the rest of your life ...i no i sound cheesy but find the right boy [ uacctk14's advice column | Ask uacctk14 A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Monday January 16 2006, 10:05 am: Well i just got my first kiss at my homecoming dance right before i turned 15. let me tell you, it was the worst first kiss of my life. dont do it unless the timing is right and dont do it just so you can say youve kissed someone. it should be special and something you remember forever. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
im_falling_4_u answered Monday January 16 2006, 9:34 am: When I got my first kiss I was 12 and my boyfriend and I kissed at the back of our school, trashy? Yes. I was pressured into it and it wasn't all that great, but I ended going out with him for 2 more years and it was greattt. But don't be pressured into doing it because it might not be good. [ im_falling_4_u's advice column | Ask im_falling_4_u A Question ]
unreachable answered Monday January 16 2006, 3:30 am: I was 12 years old and it was with my "boyfriend" of 2 months, at my basement for my Christmas Party. It was kind of rushed and I felt kind of pressured into it...it was what all of my friends and his friends expected, so I did it. And although I liked him A LOT, it wasn't special the way I wanted it to be.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday January 16 2006, 1:59 am: hey1 well since i am your age i will tell you when i got my first kiss. to be honest wit you i got my first kiss 9 months agos. it was target in the cd section. yea i noe crazy place but he had to go and so did i and that is where i got my first kiss and he still dont know that he was my frist really kiss because he dont believe me..lol.. to be honest wit you when you get your first kiss it doesnt really matter where you get it you it matter who you give it to. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday January 16 2006, 12:22 am: I was 18 when I had my first kiss. Don't worry at all. The right guy just didn't come along until I was 18. A first kiss is always memorable. I'm glad I waited and I have no regrets. Your time will come too and I'm sure you'll do great. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Sunday January 15 2006, 11:42 pm: Ok...
I'm a fourteen year old female in my freshman year of highschool. I have a boyfriend. We've been going out for over nine months. We have not kissed.
Sure, sure, call me prude. That's ok. I don't care... because the word prude comes from the word prudence, which is something to be admired in women.
You would do well to have prudence.
PRUDENCE
n 1: discretion in practical affairs 2: knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress; "the servants showed great tact and discretion"
Having prudence doesn't mean that you can't kiss. It simply means having tact and grace in practical situations. You don't have prudence if you're rushing through everything, staying up all night studying for a test you've had weeks to prepare for, having sex with your boy-/girlfriend of three weeks, etc.
I know someone who didn't get her first kiss until she was eighteen. You have plenty of time.
Like you said, you want it to be spectacular.
Unique to only you.
I'm telling you...
Don't worry about it.
It'll come in due time. Rushing it is only worse.
And I have realized this, which is why I am still waiting for that special moment. We are, proverbially, in the same boat. Sisters, in a sense. Feel no shame, guilt, malace, nor envy. Those other girls who've had their first kiss... that's their time to shine. Yours will come as well.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
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