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is my friend using me
I have this friends who makes fun of me all the time and she makes fun of me around other people too. It makes them think that its ok to make fun of me becasue she does. What can i say to her to make her stop.
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talk to her and tell her how you feel.. if she says w.e. i dont care then just be like its over.. we're not friends. Dont let her use you even though its hard to tell her.
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"i have this friend..." ...she dosn't sound like a freind to me! this sounds harsh but you need to tell her that your not friends anymore unless she stops that!! good luck!
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well jus tell her be like look stop making fun of me in front of other ppl and be like do you even know how that makes me feel gosh jus f*ckin stop it or you can be nice jus telll her it hurts your feelings and you cant take it any more !!
|♥| Samra
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omg i went thru the same thing!take ur friend aside one day and tell her that you get pissed when she makes fun of you.if she dont stop tell her that you wont hang around her anymore and say why should i hang around someone who makes me feel bad,thats if she dont stop when you tell her too.i told my frined that and she totally stopped.
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You should stand up to her and tell it like it is.When i wuz in the 6th grade, i made the misteak of letting the popular boy in klass walk all over me.U can take 3 approaches.1) Just talk to her alone and ask her to stop.2) you can just like tell her to stop RIGHT AS shes making fun of u. Or 3) you can try to ask her privately to stop and if she doesnt, then u can tell her to stop RIGHT AS shes making fun of you.
Signed,
Bowen
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next time she does just to you, (not in front of other people) talk to her one on one and just ask her why she feels the need to make fun of you all the time, and tell her you've never done anything like that to her. tell her you would appreciate it if she would stop, because friends dont do that. if she still does it, i would find a better friend.
p.s. girls usually only make fun of other girls because they are jealous. so i guess if you look at it that way, it makes you feel better. = )
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If I were you I would make fun of her back. She ahs no right to treat you that way and even though it might be a "game" in her mind. It's not right and to me it seem's like she is hurting your feeling's. I think that you should confront her and tell her you know what your doing is soo wrong and i really don't appreciate it. I know it's hard but you gotta have guts. You can do it! I Hope I helped. Send Feedback. :)
-Bianca
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I hate people that are like that.Honestly, shes not your friend if she does that if she makes fun of you all the time.Its not ever right to make fun of people.You should deffinately have a talk with her about this and maybe she will understand where your coming from, and if she dosent,then she isnt worth giving your friendship too.There may also be a reason why she makes fun of you,maybe to feel better about herself and maybe her home life sucks right now and shes hurt and she just lets it out by making fun of people.But you have to have a talk with her and tell her how hurt you are and that you dont want a friend who does that to you.Hope i could help you hun!
♥ danielle
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You need to have a serious talk with her. If you don't she really won't stop. Trust me, I know. I've been in your situation before where everyone + my best friends picked on me. & I got sick of it & realized I needed new friends. I don't know if that's a choice for you, but maybe you should try and think about that? Friends don't make fun of other friends, and if they do they're fucking stupid. End of story, you need to tell her to stop what the hell shes saying because it's really starting to piss you off! You deserve so much better & you don't need someone lowering your self esteem just so they can just gain attention from making stupid jokes about others.
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Just tell her to stop.
Then when she does it again kindly remind her to stop.
Don't call her names or be nasty, just explain to her that she is hurting your feelings and you hope she will stop. Chances are if she is a friend who cares about you, she will do her best.
And if she doesn't, then she isn't a friend, and you don't need to be hanging around her.
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If you are a mean person (like her) then make fun of her, if you are a nice person then confront her and tell her that you don't like it when she teases you. If she still does it them tell her to stop teasing you or STOP BEING HER FRIEND! I think she teases you because she's insecure and she wants to make you feel sad because she does, maybe there is more to the story OR SHE JUST LIKES TEASING YOU. Laughing it off and ignoring it can work for a while but it can get annoying!!!!!!! Avoid her! Tell her off! Or do what she does! OR confront her in a friendly manner
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Just tell her to stop. It sounds stupid but it works. Just be like please stop making fun of me because friends are suppose to care.
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