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Theres a man who is married that me and my best friend are friends with and I feel he has been acting inappropriatley with us. He winks at me when his wife isnt looking and I've caught him staring at my chest. This one time he invited me and my other friend over when his wife was at work and he started offering us both wine. Then he said 'lets play strip poker". We both looked shocked at him and he started laughing and said he was joking but the fact that he said it made me a little uncomfortable. I also found out that he confides in my other friend about his marriage and all his problems with his wife. According to my friend he tells her that his wife is stupid and that he hates her kids.
Does anyone else think this is strange behavior for a married man?
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That is pretty strange. I suggest you stop hanging out with him. If he invites you over, just say "no, i already have plans. sorry" because if he acts like that he may get you into something you wouldnt want to be in. He could offer that wine again you could get drunk, and he could take advantage of you. So I suggest just cut off contact with him. Or.. talk to a parent.
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omg yes it is!tell that guy to stop (you and ur friend) hes breaking his wifes heart for god sake!if he does anything else tell him to back off and to go solve his problems with his wife.if it gets too far call his wife and tell her..ya itll break her heart but might make him stop
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YES!!! THESE ARE VERY STRANGE ACTIONS FOR A MARRIED MAN!!!!!! STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!! TELL YOUR MOM!!!! TELL YOUR FRIEND TO STAY AWAY TOO!!!HE COULD END UP SEXUALLY ABUSING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
STAY AWAY,
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this is a strange behavior for any man how much older is he than you and you should not be hanging out with this guy if he just wants you to strip for him he probably just wants to find a way to have sex with you so be aware...please take my help
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Strange? Yes, and rather horrible.
If you are interested in maintaining a friendship with him at all I would talk to him about this. Don't ask for his opinion. Simply tell him this is what you do and I don't like it.
But frankly, I can't imagine why you would want to be friends with a man who seems to think you'll help him cheat on his wife. If I were you, I would be ending this friendship post haste.
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It could just be his personality...lots of guys, and girls really, are perverts or have a perverted sense of humor. A lot of times people need someone to talk to that's outside of the problem about it to feel better. It doesn't seem that he actually means anything by what you've said. As a precaution though, don't let yourself get alone with him and since he's your friend try talking to him about it. I wouldn't worry about it too much, but don't ignore it because you don't want to get into a bad situation. Good luck!
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Not strange. But not nice, respectful or anything good. He sounds like a creep. Don't hang out with him anymore if you can. He sounds like trouble and something you and your friend do not want to be a part of.
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uuuuuh YEAH! I think that you should stay away
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Let me go ahead and tell you, this isn't strange behavior for a marriage man. I see it all the time because the males that are husbands(that are of course having marrital problems) like to talk and do things. And it sort of depends on how deep the problems are in their marriage, and thier values of course, to cause them to be with another woman. So if you want to know the absolute truth, confront him and ask him what's up and tell him how you feel. Or stay away from him. If he makes you uncomfortable, then you need to stay away from him.
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Very strange behavior. Go with your instincts and steer clear of this guy.
Hes telling your friend his "troubles" to gain sympathy and make it "OK" to be with him because, after all he is unhappy in his marriage.
My guess is that his wife knows nothing of her troubled marriage.
The guy is hitting on the both of you. Stay clear away from him. NEVER see him alone under any circumstances. :)
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