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HELPP!!
Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous. How should I tell them??
Thanks!!!!
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oh god. i'm so sorry for you.
you could just sit down with your sister and explain the whole situation and tell her he raped you.
or you could go to a counselor at school and tell them. the counselor mightve gone through the exact same thing. if you need someone to talk to, you can im me anytime i'm on. (my sn is on my column)
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Honey the best thing for you to do, and I know it's going to be hard is to tell your mother, also tell her that you want it reported. Rape isn't only a physical injury, emotional as well, It can effect you the rest of your life. The next step in that is maybe seeing a rape crisis councelor, they help out with alot of emotional things you may be feeling. You don't have to pay any money to see one. You might be able to get the hotline number online. I'm so very sorry that this happened to you, and he needs to be arrested before it happens to someone else. I know it will be very hard. It's never easy, but have confidence in yourself, it is the best thing to do. Once again this may be a hard struggle for you, but I know you can get through it, don't ever let yourself believe that you arent strong enough.
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i would tell your mom first you cant not tell or he might rape you again im sorry bout what happened hope i helped
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you should tell someone immediately!!! your sisters feelings are a little more different than your health. plus, by saying something to your family it will make your sister aware of how much a freak her boyfriend is. if your family doesnt beleive you then you should tell a school councelor. this is a VERY serious matter!!
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= Ohhhhh my god. That's, like, really really really bad. I'd say you should first tell your sister. She won't believe you but after a while she may start noticing things and begin to think, "Hmm... maybe she was right..." Right after telling your sister, find your parents. Tell them. They will be able to help a LOT. Finally, 911. I believe raping is illegal. What am I saying? Of course it is! Call 911 immediately! As you're reading this, pick up your phone and dial the emergency hotline! Hope I helped, good luck!
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Start with your mom. She will be able to advise you.
You need to call the police and have him arrested.
Your sister will be upset with you, no doubt. But he doesn't care about her and she needs to realize it before she makes a big mistake.
If your family for some reason doesn't believe you, call the cops anyway. Never put up with this kind of thing by sweeping it under the carpet. The guy is a criminal and belongs behind bars.
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fist off i want to tell you that im real sorry about what happend... but i really think you need to tell someone.Even though your sister thinks she loves him.. in the end you know he dont love her.. so she deserves to know! pluse if you dont say anythign you will live with this your whole life and then everytime you see him you will fell worse...
cortney
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First of all if this guy was so great then why did he have to rape you. I would tell your parents and your sister right away before this guy tell your sister that you were hitting on him and that you had sex. He might forgive him and she will hate you. If your sister really loves she will beleive you
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Omg that is horrible !! you should really tell them and if they dont believe you then find a way to prove it to them and like tell ur sister that your serious about this that you arent even joking if she really loves you (which im sure she does) then she will believe you !! omg i am so sorry i hope that they believe you i so believe you !! well hope i helped !! ♥dina !!
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Being raped it not something that should happen. You should tell someone because what if it happens to another person? You need to tell your family. They will believe you because they have known you their whole lives and your parents would understand. Keeping this a secret is not the answer. I suggest telling your mom first she is the sensitive one. she will help you. Take her into your room alone and tell her you need to talk to her.
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