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My name is Cortney I am 14 and a freshman in highschool.I am a cheerleader , i play basketball and vollyball... I love to give advice, this is because i have been through about everything you can think of. SO i can relate to many of the problems i will be asked. Please dont hesitate to talk to me, i will tell you the truth and help in anyway!
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Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??

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Hi hun.My name is cortney.. Im 14. and yes this is called abuse. No one deserves to be hit like that... even if you have done simething wronge.. Doesnt anyone see the bruises.. dont he see that he is hurting you.....? You need to tell someone... may be your mom... if you have one.. or any other family member... or a teacher... any one that can help......


Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous. How should I tell them??


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fist off i want to tell you that im real sorry about what happend... but i really think you need to tell someone.Even though your sister thinks she loves him.. in the end you know he dont love her.. so she deserves to know! pluse if you dont say anythign you will live with this your whole life and then everytime you see him you will fell worse...

cortney




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