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I learn about sex through sex education websites, such as sites for teenagers, and I'm consintly sharing such information with friends so that they will not do something wrong when they get infected or something. I taught everyone how to put on condoms, take them off correctly, and although my friend recieved the information gratefully, she thinks that I would only know this because I watch porn. Naturally, there are pictures but they are of infections and such. What do I do to convince them that I DO NOT watch porn (even though it is a healthy thing, I still don't), and that I don't have such access to it?
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hey hun, theres no real way to pruve it to them but you can show them the sites you've been to to show them its not porn.
xO. jessica
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Let your friends know that you have read up on the subject, and know a lot about it. That you do not watch porn. If they are real friends they should understand!
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Maybe you could invite them over and show them the websites? That is really all I can think of to do. Seeing is believing, after all. Of course, it is none of their business whether you watch porn and I think they are being way judgemental about it, but what can you do? People judge other people. So, yeah, other than just telling them that you don't watch porn or just giving into it and not caring what they say, all you can do is show them your sex ed websites.
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use like reverse physcology or something say "you just think I watch porn cuz your jealous and you wish you could have been the genius to teach us the helpful stuff!"
I hope I helped
Karazi kenzee
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It can be tough to know such important stuff that can help protect you and your friends, and they completely miss what you're telling them. You need to help your friends understand all of this stuff. Try showing them the websites where you became so knowledgable. Or, you can lecture them about how porn is not safe sex, and it has almost nothing to do with STD's (except for when the stars get infected with them.) Have fun being right!
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well actually i got some of my anatomy lessons from my friend and he got it from a teen health book when we were younger. show them where you got it. i mean really, you canfind it prety much on any site and it doesnt mean porn...(that would mean that everyone watches porn!) show them the history on your computer maybe? <3
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Stop being a creepy encyclopedia of sex.
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if you show your friend the websites you get your information from, then she will see how you know. that is really the only way you can prove it.
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Is the fact that they think you watch porn becoming a problem? Because if they just mentioned it once, and never again, then it's no big deal and probably doesn't need to be brought up again. But if she continuously is mentioning "you watching porn", then yeah. Set her straight. Ask her to stop accusing you of it, and tell her there are other ways to learn how to do this stuff than watch porn. (Yeah, plus porn either 1)half the time doesn't even HAVE a condom or 2)doesn't even show them putting it on, it's just magically there).
Tell her that you care about you and your friend's health, so sometimes you read up on sex education when you're bored, so that when you have sex, you'll be ready and prepared. Show them the websites. They're really immature if they don't understand that after that, you DONT watch porn. I think it's stupid in the beginning for her to be accusing you of it anyway.
Anyway, good luck!
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Give them the links so they can go there and see for themselves.
You could try to print something off that has the name of the site on it.
There are many medical related sites out there to learn from.
You might also tell them that porn sites are not in the business of showing the correct way to put a condom on! Sheesh like people are tuning in for that info! ;)
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