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I don't know what to do anymore. My little brother thinks im pyscho. Today, my mom asked him to take out the trash and walked away. After she left he refused to do it and stated that I should do it because I never do anything. But, I had helped my mom ALL day with getting ready for this garage sale. So, I told him that he should do it because he was told to. He started screaming and freaking out on me. So after like a half hour of that I punched
him. I just can't take it anymore!!! That's the first time i've ever hit him, and I don't even feel bad about it. He's hit me louds so i guess that's why. I don't want to apologize, but how should I handle my anger from now on???
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Dude, the kid needed to be smacked, but unfortunately, that isn't a good way to cope. Exercise always helps me. I always get away from the problem, and then I take a quick walk, or if I have some time, I put on some music and dance about for a while.
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Walk away from this...... and never hit him cause u can seriously hurt him without even knowing it..... say your sorry and start fresh.... even if u dont really mean it just say it and make your little brother feel better...
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You should just walk away from the problem, walk away. Take a few deep breaths and try to calm down and just ignore what he's saying.
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you can tell him to do w/e he was asked and if he starts screaming just walk away from him so your anger doesnt start b4 you walk away
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Well i think whenever you start getting mad go some place that you can get away from him like you room or the bathroom and just relax, cool off. or if you like exersizing take a short walk. i have a horrible temper this always helps me
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Your physical reflex to your anger is natural and does not mean you're going crazy. It seems you understand that you should have handled your anger better and hitting someone is never the resolution. It might seem like an answer to your problem by letting your brother have it but the repercussion of your action will be guilt and you'll have to deal with the new problems you've caused, eventually. The first step is (you guessed it) apologizing and explaining yourself. You'll feel morally conflicted since you feel that your action was justified because he has been crawling under your skin for awhile now. If it helps, let him know how tired you were after helping out the entire day and apologize about how angry you got when he made that comment. R
Remember, this is not justifying what you did wrong. Next time deal with your frustration a different way and start by talking about it.
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Beatin siblings is always a blast, but they'll use it against you. I suggest mastering the art of ignoring him! I know it's tough, but trust me, nothing will torture him more than having an older sibling who doesn't give an aat's rass about what he's crying about.
He can't force you to do anything, if he throws a punch at you to make you do one of his duties, pin him down and spit on his face or something that he can't rat you out to your mom without sounding like a retard. If he's just mouthing off, just go to your room, read a book, get on the computer, listen to some music and fall asleep.
When your mom discovers that the trash was neglected, it will be his hide not yours.
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From now on you should try kick him in the face. You'll get much more satisfaction, and you'll be much happier at the fact that he's now shut up and laying on the floor.
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