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what do i do..?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while..and sure i have kissed him and stuff but i think he is getting bored of always doing the same things with me. i really want to make-out with him but i never have before but i think he wants to make-out with me too. if there anything that guys like? and would he still be interested in me if we did make-out? please help me!! thanks in advance.
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NEVER do anything you arent ready for. all guys want to makeout with their girlfriends. its just an instinct for them. i dont know. most guys want to go farther than makingout if you know what i mean. and once you get started i hear its hard to stop. so just explore your options and talk to your boyfriend about it. if he loves you he wont laugh or get mad at you or anything like that. you dont have anything to loose so give it a try. and i hope everything goes okay.
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There are plenty of ways to keep a relationship alive without having to do what you are uncomfortable with. Maybe the lack of interest is not physical but conversational. Have you been keeping your guy interested intellectually?
Being in a relationship should benefit both of you, not only him. You should not force yourself to do something you're not comfortable with in order to keep him "interested" because that would be going the wrong way. You should be leaving him craving for more, more of your sweet personality or how sensitive you are to his feelings, not only how far you'll be willing to go or how he can tell all his friends about it. You're much too young to be dealing with that kind of stress.
If he turns out to be that kind of guy who wants booty rather than a "cutie" then you'd better bounce on outta there.
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yea i think he would still be interested in you if you make out you said you think he wants to make out with you too.
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I'm sure that you're BOTH feeling that it's time to up the level of contact in the relationship: I can understand however your worries about his losing interest in you if you take it too far- there are so many stories out there about guys who pressure their girlfriends into sex, then sneer at them for being easy. Truth is though, no guy who would behave like that is worth your attention, so you can relax.
To get on to the fun part, what do guys like? Quite simply, the same things that you do yourself. There are too many myths about the physiological and psychological differences between the sexes- in fact, apart from the basic and obvious differences, men and women get off on much the same things , it really depends on the individual. I've always found that rubbing a hand gently but strongly along the inner thighs works wonders, but be warned-he'll want to get laid!(and I'm not sure that you're ready for that yet). A tounge gently inserted into his ear also is good, as are ear caresses in general. Just go with what feels good and try to gague his responses as you go along, which gets easier with practice. A very good guide is The Big Bang by Em and Lo(available in most large bookstores). Enjoy! Lucretia x.
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"would he still be interested in me if we did make-out"
Just think about that line for a second.....
Sounds pretty dumb doesn't it?
Yep.
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