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"Left out"?
This is... kind of odd, I suppose.
Please only read this is you are female.. and know what you are talking about?
I'm 13. I've had my... yeah...
But I've never liked a guy. Ever. Been kissed. Wanted to kiss. Never had a crush or a boyfriend or anything.
I have no interest in girls, either. Nothing.
I'm not shy around boys or girls.
What's up with me? :/
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Ok, I admit it, I am a guy, but I know what your talking about. It's ok that you don't feel attracted to anyone. I guarentee you, there is nothing wrong with you. You might just start liking guys later on in life, or you might not. Either way is totally normal. Hope i helped.
Dan
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theres nothing rong wiv u im 13 and ive nt eva kissed a guy all my mates ave but ive nt i do av crushes your just yourself and theres nothing wrong wiv dat!
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Well its good that you dont date cauce you no stuf that can happen youll start dont worry gurl!xOxO//♥\
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There is nothing wrong with you, and you don't have any reason to worry about anything! You should actually be glad. Once you start liking guys and actually dating, you will understand why I sed that! Guys turn out to just be a waste of your time, and the reason for your tears most of the time! You should enjoy this little phase while you still can. b/c believe me, that's all it is. A phase that sooner or later, you will grow out of and start liking guys and wanting to get a b/f. Be careful when you do start liking them tho, and make sure you choose a good one! Guys break your heart, and tell you lies! Atleast that is what I have concluded! You are just a good girl who isn't ready for a relationship yet! Getting your period has nothing to do with when you start being interested in guys either! That is just your body maturing. Sooner or later you will like guys and always want one around, trust me!
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you arent ready for those things, your barin doesnt want to be occupied over that!! you are a great thinker for your age!
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It's entirely normal. I didn't notice males at all until I was about sixteen. Consider yourself lucky, intelligent and an independant thinker.
Someone is going to flame me for this but my personal theory, is a lot of very young teens and pre-teens who date aren't really doing it out of genuine feelings of attraction or love, but are mimicing what they see in the media or how older people behave.
I promise you, by skipping out on this period of childish and more often then not, destructive and hurtful relationships, you will be a happier person in the long run.
Just look at the questions we get here everyday from people your age and be grateful. Save your affections for something really meaningful and enjoy your youth as long as you want.
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AW ♥ Its okay sweetie. All people mature at different ages! You dont need to get your period to know what your orientation. I think it will come somtime later naturally I promiss. Just remeember to be yourself & accept yourself. Dont worry about it. Good luck. <3 Always. Lauren
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Left Out,
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Just because you've gotten your "...yeah" doesn't mean you'll suddenly be boy-crazy. It's absolutely normal for you not to be boy-crazy or even have a crush now. It's okay. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was almost fourteen (seriously two months before I turned fourteen is when I got my first boyfriend.) Before that I think I liked two different guys. Yeah. You will probably fall in love for a long time, perhaps find your 'soul mate' at a very young age (relatively young anyway). It is okay not to like guys yet, or want to kiss one. One day you'll see a guy, meet him, hang out with him and simply think, "Wow. This guy is the best thing... ever." Perhaps you'll think he's better than sliced bread. Or maybe you don't like sliced bread, so you think he's better than non-sliced bread. Haha. Either way, you'll be 'head-over-heels,' 'star-struck,' etc. etc. It happens to all of us... and it's perfectly normal for it to not have happened to you yet. Each girl - and boy - are different and will mature differently. Some girls will never like boys until they're out of high school, perhaps in college. They may never have a prom date or a steady boyfriend. That's okay though. Some girls will go out with every guy they can set their eyes upon, and they end up breaking so many hearts. Yes, both are extreme examples, but you get the idea. Hormones happen differently in each girl, so do not be concerned. Though, if you have other problems concerning health / hormones, you might want to talk to your mom and perhaps see a doctor. That's only if you have health issues though. Don't worry, you're fine.
-FunnyCide
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i dont think there's anything wrong with you. just because you've gotten your period, it doesnt mean you're supposed to start liking guys. it's different for everyone, and this just means that you're not like boy-crazy like me, lol. i have some friends that are 14 and they've never kissed anyone or dated before.
soo yea.. you're perfectly fine, and you're only 13, so you still have plenty of time to mature
:)
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There is probably nothing wrong with you. I think all girls start liking guys at different ages. Don't be worried about it because you're young and that's fine. Liking guys, dating guys, and kissing guys doesn't need to be on your mind right now anyway.
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ok...i know you said dont read it if your a guy, but...being a guy...if you say that, that's gunna make a guy curious.
there's nothing wrong with you. my parent's r both doctors, and step-mother is an expert in development in teenagers. my girlfriend (before we were dating) had this going on in her life as well...most girls do. it's just that some devolope there "raging hormone's" for guy's earlier than others. give it some time. your best bet is to just focus on school, and soon enough a guy will come along, and you'll have the butterflies in your stomach.
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It's totally normal. Your only 13! So, it sounds like your physically mature, but you have not yet matured completely mentally. If this isn't the case and you've already matured completely, then that's okay too if you do not have sexual desire for either gender. Some adults are like that, and they have no sexual orientation.
hope this helps- :)
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ah no biggie, youll get there, your hormones havent kicked in yet, thats all, dont worry, you're better off now, trust me
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u just havn't matured yet even though you have gotton your period. trust me, this is perfectly normal.
good luck and don't worry about it. keep me posted
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