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Guy Friend being a jerk
15/f if that helps..
The other day I was changing because I had just gotten out of the shower. My best friend (a guy) was coming over. I was just in my bra & underwear when he got to my house. My mom let him go to my room, because there hasn't been anything going on with us in the past, so she's not concerned. Well, he opened the door and saw me in just my undergarments. It's really not a big deal. but he's acting all weird about it like "hehehe i saw your underwear" and won't let it go. he didn't even apologize when he saw me he just like stared for a minute. SO how can I get him back to acting normal?!?!?! He is being such a jerk and won't cut it out.
If anybody has any advice as to get him to stop acting to stupid please, do tell!!!
thanks
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Well, I'm thinking you should talk to him. Did you ask him to apologize? Did you tell him to shut up? Did you say that it's no big deal? Hope I helped!
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Tell him that you dont see the big deal about him seeing you in your underwear, and you wish he would drop it because you dont like that to be the subject of every conversation. Tell him to stop being so immature about it, and to get over it. =)
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i think you should just give him a little time. it will blow over soon enough, and if it doesn't, then just tell him to drop it. he should listen, so it's not a big deal. mayb he likes you or something, and it was just weird for him. i hope it works out!
good luck
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It's just his way of expressing the uncomfortable situation. I mean maybe he thinks if he didnt say anything at all it'd be too awkward, so joking around about it a little (or a lot at first) will kind of lighten the mood. Even if it's not a big deal that he saw you in your under-wear to you, it probably was uncomfortable to him so he's just trying to get past it by joking kinda. Don't worry, I'm sure it will end.
If it bothers you just joke around back and call him immature. That should shut him up. ;)
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Honey guys deal with things in different ways some pretend it didn't happen, others tell their friends and others tease you about it. He is probably dealing with it in his own way because he was embarassed about it. Either that or he likes you. Maybe even both. If he was treating you differently before this happened I say he has a crush on you. It happens to alot of friends of the opposite sex. By the way try talking to him about how uncomfortable you feel about him teasing you about it. DON'T try to get even with him like some people say.
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well if his mom is as relaxed as yours is and you time it right you can catch him when hes jsut getting out of the shower, preferably with no undergarments and then youll be even.
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hay girl!! well um theres no easy way for this.. but i mean basically all i have to say is boys will be boys.. i mean i would jus ignore it and change the subject when he brings it up.. and if he keeps on then just talk to him seriously bout it... jus tell him i know we are good friends n all but this is seriously bothering me when you say these things n i really would appreciate it if you would please stop... n if still keeps on ditch him... hes not a good friend... hope this helps ya somewhat!
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well, for one he is a guy....((and hes prolly thinking about how hott u are wen hes teasing you)) but you need to tell him it bothers you. you kno, 'yes, ____ you saw me in my underwear. i kno. i was there. you can stop harping on about it. the joke is dead and rotting and it bothers me.' that kinda thing. and if he keeps it up, wait till the moment seems right, and PANTS HIM!!! ((extra points if you catch him in his rocketship boxers)) and then laguh and giggle about how you saw his underwear, and get under his skin, and tryi the whole talking to thing again.
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chances are, he was probably embarrassed and, like most guys, he tried to pull a funny to lessen the tension. he obviously saw you, freaked out, and then tried to do anything to distract from the fact that he just saw a member of the opposite sex half naked. if you let it go or try to change the subject, chances are he'll be relieved that you aren't grossed out or anything and he'll drop it. if he keeps bringing it up, say something like "why are we still talking about this? you saw me in my underwear, big deal. can we move on?" he'll get the message eventually. good luck!
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hmm that seems like a guy thing. he probably juss gets a kick outta the fact that he saw you in your underwear. talk to him about it. tell him it's getting annoying. either that or do the same to him. try to catch him in HIS underwear. things will be evened out. maybe he doesn't know its truly bothering you. juss talk to him about it first.
good luck!
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What you should do is find out something that he wouldn't want people to know about like something embrassing. Investigate so when he will start with his very immature attitude you should get him back.By bothering him too with what you find out bad about him he will probably stop.Or try talking to him that you feel upset and it really hurts that he makes fun of you and that he wouldn't like it if you did the same to him.Or ignore him or don't hang out with someone like that he is so not a friend there are other people who won't do that to their buddies.That boy should grow up!
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