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hey, its tori,(( in the pic, im the one in the middle with the stupid look on my face. miki is smacking her forehead, and kristen is wearing black.)) just started this. i like to write, and im sensitive, and i want to help, and i kinda want to be a psycologist, cuz everyone tells me i can 'read ppl' **whatever** and anyways, im here to help......kisses...
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Okay, well one of my friends was talking to me, and she said she thought she was overwieght. She doesn't really look it, but she said she's gained about 20lbs in the past year. She thinks it may be due to stress because she moved just this past year. Well she had to leave her boyfriend behind and everything, and now she's maintaining a long distance relationship, which we all know can be stressful. Anyway, her boss usues relacore, and has an extra bottle, and my friend told me she was thinking about using it. So I asked her if it was safe and she said she wasn't sure. So I visited a website, relacore.com and I still wasn't completely sure if it was safe or not. She's only 15 and I wasn't sure if this was something that only adults should use, or something of the such. Anyway, we just wanted to know if relacore is okay for a 15 year old girl to take, and if not are there any other diet pills you could reccommend? Thanks in advance (link)
i honestly dont kno about this relacore thing, but i am sure your friend is absolutely beautiful and perfectly preportianed ((i cand spell to save my life, sorry)) but if shes is worried about this, then mabye you could suggest working out together, you know, like 20, or 30 pushups/ crunches every night, and find some other really easy excercises, and tell her you will do them if she will do them, and i bet you if you guys keep doing it for a month or so, shell feel a lot better about herself ( added bonous of you staying in shpe too)


I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!! (link)
the first guy is not worthy to lick the dirt off your shoes. i really dont kno why you are confused about this one. GO FOR THE SECOND GUY!! HES GOLD!!


15/f if that helps..
The other day I was changing because I had just gotten out of the shower. My best friend (a guy) was coming over. I was just in my bra & underwear when he got to my house. My mom let him go to my room, because there hasn't been anything going on with us in the past, so she's not concerned. Well, he opened the door and saw me in just my undergarments. It's really not a big deal. but he's acting all weird about it like "hehehe i saw your underwear" and won't let it go. he didn't even apologize when he saw me he just like stared for a minute. SO how can I get him back to acting normal?!?!?! He is being such a jerk and won't cut it out.
If anybody has any advice as to get him to stop acting to stupid please, do tell!!!
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well, for one he is a guy....((and hes prolly thinking about how hott u are wen hes teasing you)) but you need to tell him it bothers you. you kno, 'yes, ____ you saw me in my underwear. i kno. i was there. you can stop harping on about it. the joke is dead and rotting and it bothers me.' that kinda thing. and if he keeps it up, wait till the moment seems right, and PANTS HIM!!! ((extra points if you catch him in his rocketship boxers)) and then laguh and giggle about how you saw his underwear, and get under his skin, and tryi the whole talking to thing again.


Well ive fallen for a friend of mine, and im looking for a creative way to tell her. now im not some loser that has never had a date, and i know the standard straight forward way to ask out a girl, but im looking for soemthing a bit more intresting. i am 19/m she is 20/f (link)
i kno im not real old, but, i can tell you the fourtune cookie route is always sweet. find someplace that makes fourtune cookies, and haave them bake a cookie that has a note in it that tells her how you feel. or, another peice of origami. like a heart that says open me, or something like that.


Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this? (link)
i think your mom just dosent want you to gethurt. because she is your mother, and she still sees you as her little girl, and wants to protect you from anything that will hurt you. and now shes scared of this guy (who is way older than you) exploitin you and your feelings. i mean, theres always that chance that he really cares for you as a friend, and has only honest intentions, but theres also the fact that he is a guy. and guys only have enugh blood to operate eaither thier brains, or whats in thier pants, but not both at one time. so i think you should tell him to that you dont feel (or your mother dosent feel, but i wouldnt opt fot that one) comftorble talking to him on aim, and tell him he hurt your feelings,((i totally applaud you for having the guts to tell him, tho, i dont think i would have)) and you would rather not talk about his love affairs, but you still want to be friends. i hope i helped, and ifi can help anymor, drop me a line. ;-D


okay so yea.. i have a huge problem with crackin my knuckles nd there like big now :( dose any one know how i can make them smaller nd or stop my habbit? please nd thanks i rate 5s
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well, i cant tell you how to make them smaller, but i can tell you, i had the same problem, and i hated how everyone looked at me when i started popping my joints. because i diddnt just pop my knuckles. i popped my wrists, my elbows, my ankles, my neck, and my back. so...everytime i started popping anything, i tried snapping myself with a rubberband, but that diddnt work so well, (i have high pain tolerance) but then, i would just start streching instead of popping, and i would feel better afterwards. ;-)




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