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I'm so confused!
Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this?
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Okay, read between the lines here. Obviously its not a God thing. And God is your creater and he wants whats best for you. And if your mom doesnt think its right, quiet honestly this may not make since now.. but later on it will. Your mom knows whats best because shes either been through it or knows somebody who has been through it. And if you dont listen to your mom listen to me. If any guy wants to put you second to some other chic, is it honestly worth it? NO!!! I hope thats what your answer was. But you need to set your standards HIGHH as crap because when you do that you will find the right guy for you, and maybe not the right guy for you to marry but the right guy for you to just simply date. and trust me i spent three years of my life trying to get this guy back.. i mean we would break up and always get back together but now i look at it and see, it was a waiste of my life.. because now im seeing all these great guys. And thats because I have my faith in God to show me the right direction and you may not agree with me there but trust me, its alot better. With God on your side , God will take care of them boys. So im gonna pray for you and i hope that you'll make the right choice!!
HEY i had to edit my answer cuz i wasnt sure how else to reply cuz i just started this junk or watever but im Baptist but as long as your a Christian is great. If you want nemore help give me your AIM/AOL screen name okay
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I wouldn't trust him either. Just ignore him because he's probably just messing with you.
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No ofense but I think ur mom is kinda right. She just doesnt want you getting hurt again. I mean he didnt have the right to do what he did.
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i think your mom just dosent want you to gethurt. because she <i>is</i> your mother, and she still sees you as her little girl, and wants to protect you from anything that will hurt you. and now shes scared of this guy (who is way older than you) exploitin you and your feelings. i mean, theres always that chance that he really cares for you as a friend, and has only honest intentions, but theres also the fact that he is a guy. and guys only have enugh blood to operate eaither thier brains, or whats in thier pants, but not both at one time. so i think you should tell him to that you dont feel (or your mother dosent feel, but i wouldnt opt fot that one) comftorble talking to him on aim, and tell him he hurt your feelings,((i totally applaud you for having the guts to tell him, tho, i dont think i would have)) and you would rather not talk about his love affairs, but you still want to be friends. i hope i helped, and ifi can help anymor, drop me a line. ;-D
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aight well this guy already told you he didn't like you so hes looking for a rebound girl and (since your 3 years younger) he just wants to get in your pants!! You already told him how you felt so he knows he can have you if he wants....if you still wanna be 'friends' its ok to talk to him on AIM but never be friends with benefits!!!! and when your mom comes in the room when your on then just x out of the box. hope I helped
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Block da fool because he is a fool
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Keep your distance from this guy unless you want to become rebound girl. It's okay to be friends but this guy seems to be stringing you along even if he doesn't mean to.
If you think you can keep it on the level of just friends then you are fine, if not, just back off a little. If he is really sad about relationship issues maybe you'll want to say "I'm sorry I don't think I'm the person you should be talking to about this."
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