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this guy....
well, theres this guy, and hes friends with my ex, but we've always been really good friends, and now i realize that i really really like him, but, he liked one of my really good friends, and he told her, and got rejected. and now i ddont know if i should tell him, or just stay friends with him. anyideas?
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Hey! I think it's always good to be honest so I think you should tell him. Also, once you tell him and get all your feelings out it may make things easier for you. Besides if you never tell him, you may miss out on a great relationship, and you'll always wonder 'what if you had told him'. Hope it helped!
-Me
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I'm apologizing for my harshness now:
Hm, I don't know how his being friends with your ex has any point at all in being there, unless your ex still likes you... and still, if he did, it's over and he has no say in who you can and can't date.
Ok, now to get to the serious point. Liked? As in, past tense? As in, he doesn't like her anymore? Because if so, he's open game, so you might as well go for it and tell him how you feel.
But if you don't want to be courageous, and want to take the chicken way out, you could ask him who he likes. Chances are, he'll either tell you, or say nobody. Now, I have to warn you about 'nobody'... It could mean that he likes you, or he really doesn't like anyone. If he responds with a nobody, tell him how you feel and see if he still likes 'nobody'.
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if you don't want to ruin your friendship with this guy its risky to confront him!
it depends what hes like . . . you know him better than me. if when you tell him your feelings he tells you the feeling isn't the same then you might be able to move on (again depending on how well you know each other and if hes understanding and forgiving)!!
if he does feel the same way and you end up going out then it could be great . . . but when/if you break up . . .things will probably be awkward, but if hes a good friend/great guy etc . . then you could work things out!!
its up to you to decide . . . i hope this helps . . . good luck! tell me how it goes!
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Yeah, I think you should be straight with him and tell him you got feelings for him more than just a friend. That you would like it if he had the same feelings for you and that you understand if you don't want to date me because you think it would be kind of awkard and all and you would rather have a good friendship than being in risk of losing one. But if your his good friend he should understand that you grown a liking to him. If you take my advice and get rejected then just realize there's more guys out there for you. Hope I helped. Good luck.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Well you have to tell him or else he will never know how you feel and you might never get a chance so just tell him
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Go for it. I think you shouldn't tell him yet. Just give him hints first. Get him to know && like you more. Then after a while, tell him how you feel about him. Good luck && hope I helped
TORi
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