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i know this is really dumb, but i REALLY need advice. okay well recently on myspace i got a message from this guy who was really hot and he thought i was hot, so we exchanged AIM screen names and were talking like all the time. then eventually we started calling each other and now i talk to him online & on the phone every single day. i'm starting to develop feelings for him and i don't want to. there is no chance or future for us, he lives across the country from me! i don't want to stop talking to him though because he is really sweet and funny. is there something wrong with me for liking him? is there any way i can continue talking to him without liking him like THAT ?? please help im going crazy
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Have you noticed that a lot of people on this site and everywhere are having these wonderfull relationships online .Try to compare whats great about it that you havent had in a conventional relationship and you may be able to understand that its just fun for now untill the real intimacy that you need will come along to replace it.
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i don't think there is anything wrong with you liking a guy you met on the internet. but if you really want to stop liking him in a sexual // relationship way you probly need to stop talking to him .. it would be the only way until you find another guy. i've gone through the same thing but the guy i had feelings for lived only a state away. we still had no chance in hell that we would ever get to see each other or date in any way but i stopped talking to him for a little bit and finally got over him in that way. i found another guy that i am dating right now and i'm soo happy that i'm over the one over the internet because if i wasn't i'd probly be having second thoughts about my boyfriend right now and it wouldn't be good. the guy you talk to might ruin your love life if you keep it up.
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well the reason you probally like him is probally becasue you know you cant have him and that makes you want him even more thatn u already do....you could try talking to him less or just try to find someone new to like.....
Good Luck!
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There is not really a way that you can keep back your feeling so what I would do is just keep talking to him and become very good friends tell eachother secrets and stuff like that well mabey there will be a chance where you guys can meet. I hope this works.
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Ah, the age old question of internet relationships...i have a friend who is VERY into this and actually ended up roping me into one...i understand how you feel, only this guy lived in IRELAND (the accent on the phone was what got me!)anyways, while there may not be a future love life here, you should stay friends, my friend has people all over the country who she has become very close with, and who knows? maybe if you stay friends long enough you'll meet one day!
Good Luck!
Jersey
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Hello there,
You know, it is funny what looks like it is impossible today can be quite possible in the future.
My wife, and I were living on opposite coasts when we met online. Now we have been married for eight years. :-)
If you find someone that you get along with, don't let distance screw it up. I was madly in love with my wife before I ever even saw her.
I fell in love with who she was not what she was. There are no physical distractions when you start your relationship long-distance.
Personally, I think that it helps greatly in forming a solid relationship. One based on trust and facts, shared opinions, and agreement about a great many topics that will aid you greatly in having a lifelong relationship without running out of things to talk about.
It would be a shame, to throw away something so perfect for the sake of a little distance.
DangerNerd.
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You really can't just stop a feeling. It would be nice to do sometimes but it can't be done! I don't think you need to just stop talking to him. He may become a very good friend. Sounds like he already is. You keep up the friendship but go on with the rest of your life. You never know what might happen in the future and you could very well meet one day. You will be pretty good friends by then! So, there is nothing wrong with liking him. :)
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well i would suggest trying to keep up your frienship and only that. think of him and refer to him as FRIEND. however, i dont think theres really a way to just *stop* liking him. yano? that would be like stopping your emotions. theres nothing wrong w/ liking him!! but if you dont want to think of him like that then just keep all of your chat as friends.
good luck- :)
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There is nothing wrong with liking him. And you can't help liking someone, its natural. So just see if you could maybe have a long distance relationship.♥
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