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Question Posted Sunday June 12 2005, 9:54 pm

okay well i was at my grandparents for a little get together and my aunt took a picture of me and my friend outta my purse and went around tellin everyone that he was my boyfriend, and when i found out what she was doing i freaked out and ran over and took it out of her hand and i was like, what the hell were you doing in my purse anyway.. and she was like i need your dads car keys, and im like, first of all..my dad doesnt want you in his fucking car, and you had no right going into my purse and taking out my picture and telling these people a bunch of lies, and shes like, calm down, and im like, lay off the beers and fuck offf. and she got all pissed off. but thats not wrong of me is it? i was right, right?

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karenR answered Monday June 13 2005, 4:58 pm:
Well she certainly had no right getting into your purse. She could have just asked you if she wanted something you might keep there. She was also wrong to parade your pictures around without your permission. So as far as that goes you were right.

I do think you might have handled it a little differently. I realize you were mad but by yelling at her as you did and using the language that you used you may have come off as being the bad guy. Next time I think you should quietly tell her what you think. Tell everyone that what she said was untrue and leave it at that. :)

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Igotamonopoly answered Monday June 13 2005, 9:41 am:
I would have tackled her.


Yeah, you were right, I wouldn't have told her to 'fuck off' per se, but I would have come close.

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Mackenzie answered Monday June 13 2005, 12:00 am:
Well you COULD have been moRe polite about it. BUT she DID invade youR peRsonal pRopeRty WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION, which is a HUGE no-no. And to be honest, I would have Reacted the SAME EXACT WAY!!!! I'm behind ya 134%!!!!!

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:52 pm:
Well... I DO agree, she shouldn't just go in your purse like that. But you should have put it in nicer terms. But I do agree, she shouldn't just go into your things like that.
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MHScutie87 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:28 pm:
i totally think you were right to be mad because she invaded your privacy and made up a bunch of bs. however, i dont think you shouldve cussed at her. i mean shes family :( lol. thats a really sucky situation though.. i hope it gets better.

good luck & hope i helped- :)

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IgotGAMEforSHIZZLE answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:27 pm:
You were kind of right in this situation. It was wrong of your aunt to go in your purse. I would have been pissed also, especially about the picture thing. The thing you did wrong was blow up. Next time something happens like this, explain to your aunt that you really really don't like her going in your personal stuff, tell her to not do it again. Also explain how it makes you feel, embarassed and very pissed, when she told people he was your boyfriend. Hope I helped!

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