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BFF?
Me and my friend have been friends since Kindergarden. (currently in 8th grade) And in 7th grade this girl moved here and we've been friends ever since. But i try very hard to include both of them in all that i do.. and not ignore them. But then when she was in 5th grade here and this other girl became friends and ever since and it seems like i'm always being ignored by her. I understand that she has to have other friends and stuff but i feel like i should be indluded in some of the stuff she does. like occasionally go to her house. and when i invite her to my house.. it always seems like something 'comes up' and she never gets to come.. either that or she already has plans with the other girl. I don't wanna break the friendship.. but i just don't know what to do.. Any suggestions?
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try to ignore her when she talks to you or get better friends because your friends suck. They dont like you.
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.__. Maybe it's time to move on...or have some time apart or just start talking again, from what I have read it seems like there isn't much of a connection anymore.
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Ask her what is going on. The same thing happened with me and my friend. Like I found out ( not from her ) that she was jelouse. It's good that you know that she has other friends also. Just ask her.
-♥Sophie
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WOW. No really WOW. I am having this same exact problem with my best friend. Espacillay something that recently happened but I'm not going to talk about it if one of my friends visited my column. Anyway if you see her at school talk to her there. Explain everything you said here to her and even tell her about this question. Say to her that you feel your friendship is falling apart. This could make all the difference. Plan a date when just the two of you can be together. Make sure she has no other plans and her parent know too. That way you two can talk for a while. If all of this doesn't work you may need the friendship to fall apart. But do not let this discourage you. If she is a real friend she won't let this happen. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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OOOOk! what you need to do here is just talk to your friend about what's bothering you. I'm in 8th grade too... and I know how it feels to be left out. It happened to me a lot last year, but I just talked to my friends about the way I felt and now everything is great! There's no reason for you to break this freindship up because it seems to me like you really care for her. But, when you talk to her, you have to take the right approach. Make sure she know's exactly how you feel, if your angry, tell her your angry. If you are just felling left out, tell her that. Don't let your messages get mixed up and don't yell about it if you still want to be her friend.
Hope I helped!
~*ash
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Talk to your friend about it. Expain to her that you are feeling left out and although you know that it is probably not intentional you just wanted to bring it to her attention. I'm sure that when the two of you talk it out all will be well again. Good luck, hope this helps.
♥ Behind Blue Eyes
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ok, ive had this problem with friends before, infact i am having that problem right now.
ask her why shes spending so much time with this girl and tell her that you feel left out. i'll bet its not intentional. also you have to remember that just because you were best friends since kindergarden doesnt mean that you'll be best friends forever. grade eight is about the time when people start to grow apart. you are starting to find out who you are and thats going to be different than who you were in kindergarden. she might feel that she has more in common with this new girl. but, again just flat out ask her whats up with her spending so much time with this new girl. she might not know thats shes making you feel excluded.
if you really feel ignored spend more time with other friends, you'll feel much better. try to be with someone who doesnt make you feel left out. you'll have a much better time and most likely forget about this other girl whos been ignoring you.
~rainbow
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